I'm currently on this journey tbh, the things I am doing is:
- Walking almost everyday (with the goal of eventually waking 5+ miles but I am unfit and have rubbish knees so I'm taking it a bit slower). If I don't want to go on a long walk that day, I'll walk less.
- Controlling my overeating with the use of MyFitnessPal and Fitbit. This only is working because I am eating what I WANT to eat and I am eating the recommended amount (by medical professionals) in safe conditions. And I have 1 "cheat day" in which I don't follow a strict calorie counting day (I still eat in moderation though but im a little more lenient)
I highly recommend if you are on a calorie deficit that you eat what you want to eat but in moderation. You are going to struggle an unnecessary amount if you stop eating things you enjoy such as chocolate bars.
You need to build a positive relationship with food and exercise before you can lose weight.
That being said: You don't need to lose weight for anyone or anything. Only do it if you want to do it for yourself. You are more than your weight <3