Friends

Hi,
So I’ve been friends with a group of friends for a while. I am quite a distanced person and I suffer from anxiety. There was an incident that occurred, where a family member party was happening and I didn’t invite them properly. After this they all distanced themselves from me, however did reach out soon after. We went out, but something had blown out of proportion, and I had kept asking what happened and was essentially left embarrassed. I ghosted them all for a few months, however they have still tried to keep some sort of contact m. What should I do? I so realise whilst I was friends with them previously, I wasn’t a great friend, however due to the last situation, I’m not sure if I should try resolve things, or should I just take things slowly?

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If you want to be friends with them, then make an effort to meet and talk with them. Otherwise just let it be.

I would also say that you do not have to invite your friends to every event that you attend, particularly if it is for and/or arranged by members of your family.