Weird attraction

Hi, so last summer my cousin got married and it was really great, on the holiday I saw my cousins husband’s brother and I am attracted to him. The trouble is he’s over 10 yrs older than me and he’s married which I feel so guilty for. How do I stop this crush?

Surely knowing someone is already married should stop you from fantasising?

Tommy Lee was married to Pamela Anderson in her heyday... it didn't stop pretty much every red-blooded male from fantasising about her.

Imagine him the morning after he's had a really strong curry... and you have to go in after he's done the inevitable.

Job done

It’s probably just a harmless crush, as long as you don’t plan on destroying their marriage and stealing him over then you should be fine and it will pass like most crushes. Don’t feel guilty its a normal human emotion to crush on people for whatever reason.

Having celebrity crush is different? The man she’s crushing on is married and somewhat closely related/associated to her (not blood related) and I would think that would already put her off him?

Surely knowing someone is already married should stop you from fantasising?

Hi, so last summer my cousin got married and it was really great, on the holiday I saw my cousins husband’s brother and I am attracted to him. The trouble is he’s over 10 yrs older than me and he’s married which I feel so guilty for. How do I stop this crush?