I am just so done with it all. There is always something that I do, or happens that sets her off on a swearing match screaming throughout the whole house going 'f you cnts, female dogs im leaving and you can see how pull live without me, I hate you all I can't wait till you move out, you ruin everything, why do you make me shout, I hope youre happy with yourselves you ruined my life, have an effing amazing life'
It will be me forgetting to do the washing up, or me and my sister arguing over something small (nothing drastic just sibling squabbles) and she will start screaming and escalating things.
Then she'll wake up the next day and try to pretend like she didn't say any of those things and I really love her when she is not screaming. She works really hard and I really appreciate everything but my life can be stressful too. I have so much pressure from school and work and trying to make sure that everything is perfect so that it won't set her off but she will always find something no matter how hard I try.
I don't like talking about it with anyone cause she doesn't ever show this side of her to anyone but us. She is always doing good by people and she stretches herself and takes it out on us. She'll always say she doesn't mean it but it doesn't stop it from hurting.
Like I'll just go to bed and I can't sleep without my head phones on with music cause my house is small so I can hear her until late at night and I can't sleep so I go to sleep really late and I feel like I'm betraying my family if I complain even just to friends about normal things. They all think I have the perfect family and I kinda like playing into that illusion that I don't argue with my mum and that we are so happy. It's like it helps me to escape into the ideal world that I have created.
Am I just overreacting and maybe I'm just not that good a daughter?