How to tell if a guy is just using you

I’m in a relationship right now but I have noticed how his responses changed. Like he won’t tell me goodnight or I love you anymore. And he talks a lot about doing “it”. And I want to know what other ways to tell are. Anything helps!

Hi, I'm not sure how old you are but having been in a relationship before myself these are not very good signs. The only thing you can really do to find out if what is there is genuine is to confront him on why he has stopped saying these phrases, but as you mentioned he talks more about doing 'it' and that might indicate that's really all that is on his mind. Men are not hard to understand they are quite straightforward, and although no one knows your relationship better than you, only you will be able to judge how real his feelings are for you. I hope this was helpful in some way and just want to remind you that you're worth more than that and deserve love the way you give it, good luck!

Thank you so much for the advice. To answer your question I’m a young adult. I won’t give my age but I will give my gender. I identify as a female.

Alarm bells here end it especially if you are under 16

I’m in a relationship right now but I have noticed how his responses changed. Like he won’t tell me goodnight or I love you anymore. And he talks a lot about doing “it”. And I want to know what other ways to tell are. Anything helps!

It's always quite interesting hearing women's experiences of manipulative characters as being make I only see one side of the dating game and women who might be manipulative or users. It can come as quite a surprise how savvy and manipulative some guys are, call me naive-am I?