dont know if she likes me or is just being friendly/how to keep a conversation going?

just as a preface so this makes more sense i kinda missed out on some of the times in your life where you learn how to talk to people and socialise properly. like i can talk with people in a group and i dont really have anxiety but i just cant really hold a conversation with anyone. basically i dont really know how to talk to anyone one-on-one in general , nevermind girls.

anyway, the other week i met this girl at a house party and i p much instantly had a crush on her 😭there were a couple awkward silences but i think it went well. ended up having a bit of a cuddle but nothing beyond that

since then we’ve met a few times smoked and drank together with friends and i feel like we’ve become pretty good friends. but the other day she asked me if we could hang out one on one,”just me and you”.
Idk if im just clinging to the first bit of attention ive had off a girl in a while or if she could actually be in to me. even if shes not, does anyone have any tips for keeping a conversation going? just so if we do end up hanging out 1 on 1 i can be prepared 😩most of the time i just find myself running out of things to say bc i find it hard to come up with topics and actually partake in the conversation at the same time

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derin005

I get you. Although I’m not a boy, I get the awkwardness in conversation with someone your in to. I say, just genuinely ask them questions about what they do during their free time, bring up funny stories to get her laughing, be chill, if you have anything you don’t know about her, personality wise, ask her. All about getting to know her while acting like a gentleman, don’t make it obvious that it’s your first time a girl has pursued you and most importantly enjoy your time together! :smile: