Should i ask to switch university accomodation?

I am currently living in a catered hall where i also share a bathroom. I really dont like my halls because the mealtimes end so early, for example at 6.45 the canteen was already closed and I prefer to eat later. Also i have only made friends with one other girl in my block, who already seems to be closer with other people. I asked to join the others and go clubbing but it seems as if they were already friends without me so I felt quite left out. I do ask to sit with people and attempt to socialise but it doesn't feel as if i've made any proper friends in my halls.

So i wanted to ask whether I could switch to a self catered accomodation with my own bathroom. There I could control when I ate and since I only moved in a week ago I was hoping it would still be possible to make friends with the flatmates. I do have friends from my course and other halls so i am not completely alone but I really dislike my halls situation right now.

Original post by Anonymous

I am currently living in a catered hall where i also share a bathroom. I really dont like my halls because the mealtimes end so early, for example at 6.45 the canteen was already closed and I prefer to eat later. Also i have only made friends with one other girl in my block, who already seems to be closer with other people. I asked to join the others and go clubbing but it seems as if they were already friends without me so I felt quite left out. I do ask to sit with people and attempt to socialise but it doesn't feel as if i've made any proper friends in my halls.

So i wanted to ask whether I could switch to a self catered accomodation with my own bathroom. There I could control when I ate and since I only moved in a week ago I was hoping it would still be possible to make friends with the flatmates. I do have friends from my course and other halls so i am not completely alone but I really dislike my halls situation right now.

Hi there,

There's no harm in asking. If you really dislike where you are now and it doesn't seem like some things will change (meals times, shared bathroom etc), then as it's still fairly early on in term, hopefully you could be moved to an accommodation you prefer. They might not be able to give you exactly what you want (or they could be fully booked so might not be able to change your accommodation) but it's always worth asking.

I hope this helps,

Bethan
University of Exeter Student Ambassador

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Original post by Anonymous

I am currently living in a catered hall where i also share a bathroom. I really dont like my halls because the mealtimes end so early, for example at 6.45 the canteen was already closed and I prefer to eat later. Also i have only made friends with one other girl in my block, who already seems to be closer with other people. I asked to join the others and go clubbing but it seems as if they were already friends without me so I felt quite left out. I do ask to sit with people and attempt to socialise but it doesn't feel as if i've made any proper friends in my halls.

So i wanted to ask whether I could switch to a self catered accomodation with my own bathroom. There I could control when I ate and since I only moved in a week ago I was hoping it would still be possible to make friends with the flatmates. I do have friends from my course and other halls so i am not completely alone but I really dislike my halls situation right now.

You can always ask if you can change halls to your university's accommodation services or see if you can find someone who's interested in a flat swap!

And about friends: I met loads of people on freshers' week, but it took a while for friendships to consolidate (in fact, they still are consolidating!), so don't worry too much about it, just make an effort to make friends and it'll happen. Clubs are a great way to make friends as well, as well as going to lectures and talking to people both before and after. Hope this helps :smile:

Original post by Anonymous

I am currently living in a catered hall where i also share a bathroom. I really dont like my halls because the mealtimes end so early, for example at 6.45 the canteen was already closed and I prefer to eat later. Also i have only made friends with one other girl in my block, who already seems to be closer with other people. I asked to join the others and go clubbing but it seems as if they were already friends without me so I felt quite left out. I do ask to sit with people and attempt to socialise but it doesn't feel as if i've made any proper friends in my halls.

So i wanted to ask whether I could switch to a self catered accomodation with my own bathroom. There I could control when I ate and since I only moved in a week ago I was hoping it would still be possible to make friends with the flatmates. I do have friends from my course and other halls so i am not completely alone but I really dislike my halls situation right now.

Hi there,
I would certainly recommended enquiring with your university accommodation service as to whether there is any chance of doing an accommodation swap. Alternatively, they may be able to advise on what you can do in the meantime. On a positive note, at least you know what you prioritise in terms of accommodation and you can use this when looking for accommodation for your next year of uni.

- Sophie

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University of Sunderland Student Ambassador

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Original post by Anonymous

I am currently living in a catered hall where i also share a bathroom. I really dont like my halls because the mealtimes end so early, for example at 6.45 the canteen was already closed and I prefer to eat later. Also i have only made friends with one other girl in my block, who already seems to be closer with other people. I asked to join the others and go clubbing but it seems as if they were already friends without me so I felt quite left out. I do ask to sit with people and attempt to socialise but it doesn't feel as if i've made any proper friends in my halls.

So i wanted to ask whether I could switch to a self catered accomodation with my own bathroom. There I could control when I ate and since I only moved in a week ago I was hoping it would still be possible to make friends with the flatmates. I do have friends from my course and other halls so i am not completely alone but I really dislike my halls situation right now.

Hello,

Seems like a tricky one but if it's possible to switch accommodation, go for it. If it's something you can't handle it would be better to take action now before it becomes unbearable. Take your time when deciding what to do and do what makes you happy. Also good to note you don't have to force being friends with people, the right friends come naturally. If you keep trying and they don't seem keen or welcoming, it's okay to just talk with your other friends. Hope this helps!

Benedicta
Digital Ambassador UoS

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