im dating a guy whos got a girlfriend, but i want to lose my virginity to him!

yu are totally right, i love the attention i get off him, im not going to do it because then he gets what he wants. but i actually dont want to not talk to him or see him ever again i know how horrible that sounds butt... :/

Am I the only one who feels sorry for the guy who she was supposed to see. Only to decide that she didn't like him, but liked his friend instead?! That's a wee bit undiplomatic.

Haha I do agree OP. And this shows there are other people paying you attention too no? Just be, you know, a decent person? Then maybe you will find yourself a decent guy to be with.

how can i seduce him so we can have sex but without him knowing im a virgin!
HELP PLEASE!!
xxx

Go ahead. If you've got enough ovaries to do it, do it. I expect a "Omg, I just wasted my virginity!111!" thread within the week.

yeah i feel bad, but i couldnt help not being attracted to him!

yeah i feel bad, but i couldnt help not being attracted to him!

Yeah actually tbh you don't sound like a bad person, you've just gotten a bit sex mad but there's nout wrong with that I'm sure you shall find someone soon enough who you wouldn't be hurting someone over.

I don't quite expect a positive review on my comment but I really think u shld shag him and get going with ur life.... Do it if u want it which I think u desperately do. Girl, bt u better get it clear in ur head that u won't be like dating him or going out with him. He won't be ur chum n trust me wen I say this. Just do it and leave him... I hope u'll be able to do the 'leaving' part with ease which can surprisingly be much complicated than the hymen breaking part.
Good luck and unlike wht one of the guys here told, u aren't a slut (well, not technically atleast)...
Bonne chance!

so here's the bottom line:

if he actually liked you, you'd be his girlfriend.

You are not, you are a desperate piece of hussy ass on the side. Ever been cheated on?

I was on a night out with my cousin and decided to go and meet this guy for a drink, i didn't like the guy i was suppossed to be meeting but his friend was drop dead gorgeous! i totally fell for him right away.
we went into town and danced and kissed he asked for my number and i gave it him. we texts for the next few days and then on one he said he was going to see his girlfriend and i was ! ! and he put i will text you tomorrow if you want? so i thought ok go on then it doesnt matter, we carried on with texting and i met up with him the saturday after he was alllll over me again, i loved the attention it made me feel great, and i have a free house this weekend iv told him we should do something and come back here, i want to lose my virginity to him. yeah i like him, but i dont love him and im using him as much as he's using me, i know it's totally wrong and awful, but i need some help! how can i seduce him so we can have sex but without him knowing im a virgin!
HELP PLEASE!!
xxx

yeah, **** happens.
you get over it.

Well, you sound like a lovely girl with moral integrity and a healthy conscience. I hope it all works out with you and casanova.