Biggest Turn Off in Girl/Guy

Girls who lead me on...I mean, if you don't like me, just say it FFS

This thread needs some balance. At least in Brighton/London, the hottest girls nearly always dont care about men who smoke, in fact most of them are smokers themselves.

Most of the people who ever complain about the smell of cigarettes etc are those who don't hang around others who smoke, and considering how many people smoke around us, it can only mean that they just don't go out much...

Anyway, for me a turn off in a girl is acting dumb.

haha love your super serious answer! low would be suffice! haha..

Its an ego-booster unfortunately and if they don't want you then they'd hardly care if its a turn-off trait when you realise it eventually.

I go out loads, I'm theatre (nearly EVERYONE smokes), I live in London (always have) and alot of my friends smoke. Its not the smell or the yellowing hands and teeth (although that is gross) its merely the sight of someone smoking that is an immediate turn off.

girls that smoke and wear way to much foundation..instant turn off

Someone who tries to start petty arguments.

Guys that are too nice.

Care to develop that? Thats a really interesting one and its caught my curiosity. I just wonder what is nice and what's too nice because no one likes some on who's a s**t to you.

Dishonesty is an instant deal breaker.

Turn-offs:

*women who are arrogant.
*women who lack originality.
*women who get drunk too often.
*women who smoke excessively.
*women who cannot take care of their health.
*women who cannot hold a conversation.
*women who are unclean/scruffy/disorganized.
*women who are lazy.
*women who are ignorant/for some reason feign ignorance!
*women who still think that it is a man's role to provide.
*women who are too superficial.
*women who are anti-intellectual.
*women who cannot function independently.
*women who have a history of infidelity.
*women who expect you to pay for their dates.
*women who don't buy you presents on your birthday but expect ones on theirs.
*women who don't have many interests which overlap with mine.
*women who are unambitious.
*women who are close-minded.
*women who think that life post-30 is all 'settling down and having children'
*women who can't tell good jokes.
*women with extreme political opinions.
*women who insist on getting their parents' approval for everything.
*women who are not financially independent.
*women who think in terms of 'who is in who's league'
*women who can only engage in small talk but not talk about things I find important.
*women who are sexually frustrated.
*women who expect you to provide them with an improved standard of living.
*women who are religious fundamentalists.
*women who wear excessive make-up.

if you can only have one partner, might as well be the best you can have, no?

squish.

Just wondered as Im bored and its late what the biggest turn off (or biggest thing that would put you off asking them out) would be in a desired partner. This is at first sight or first meeting so it can be a personality trait, a habit or something about their looks.

I'm merely curious.

Pour Moi:
Girls that smoke, biggest turn off/put off.

~James
xoxox