Being a virgin is something to be proud of.

There is so many threads created by virgins desperate to lose their virginity. It is specially sad because almost all of them are less than 20 years old. Some are even younger which is even more shocking.

Peer pressure often dictates that being a virgin is an undesirable indication of being immature or simply being a loser.
This is a completely false statement and every virgin out there should be aware of the fact that having sex early in life is not cool.
Just because you are a whore (both male and female) does not make you cool for damn sake.

I find it surprising and amusing that kids aged around 16 are being proud of losing their virginity. They should be ashamed.
What happened to the whole "no sex before marriage" thing? I am an atheist so my views are not connected to the religion in any form but I have to agree that the greatest gift to the person you love is virginity.
There is no better thing the feeling that you are the first one and the last one.

So please society open your eyes before it is too late and we will lose the only thing that distinguishes us from animals: the ability to control our sexual desire.

Losing a virginity early is not cool and you should not do it just because others did.

edit: spelling

What if when you do do it with someone you love they think you are ridiculously appauling at it, and lose interest in you due to your total hopelessness and ineptitude?

But I always get shocked about how many teenagers do it taking in mind the no sex before marriage teaching in school, whatever happened to it?

School don't tell children not to have sex before marriage (as far as I'm aware) but in faith schools it is obviously apparent from readings.

Not all schools are faith schools, comprehensive schools don't go into much depth about this subject generally.

There is so many threads created by virgins desperate to lose their virginity. It is specially sad because almost all of them are less than 20 years old. Some are even younger which is even more shocking.

Peer pressure often dictates that being a virgin is an undesirable indication of being immature or simply being a loser.
This is a completely false statement and every virgin out there should be aware of the fact that having sex early in life is not cool.
Just because you are a whore (both male and female) does not make you cool for damn sake.
I find it surprising and amusing that kids aged around 16 are being proud of losing their virginity. They should be ashamed.
What happened to the whole "no sex before marriage" thing? I am an atheist so my views are not connected to the religion in any form but I have to agree that the greatest gift to the person you love is virginity.
There is no better thing the feeling that you are the first one and the last one.

So please society open your eyes before it is too late and we will lose the only thing that distinguishes us from animals: the ability to control our sexual desire.

Losing a virginity early is not cool and you should not do it just because others did.

edit: spelling

You see that is the thing.

It is your opinion and I dont have anything against different opinions - without them world would be extremely boring place.

But peer pressure is the problem. Majority of people think the same way as you do. But just becasue more people are sharing the same opinion it does not make this opinion correct.

Many virgin feels that just because everyone is doing it they should too and this is completely and utterly wrong.

I got a neg rep from this thread saying this:


I think the non virgins are feeling bad because they now jealous of virgins
they probably got there yeast infections!
So a message to all the non virgins who are hating in this thread:
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha

[I think I shall recieve even more neg rep for that comment]

I should clear one thing up.

By saying "the only thing that distinguishes us from animals" I did not mean in term of biology but in term of psychology.

When an animal feels the urge to compulate it just goes for it really. People are able to control it.

I don't understand why some people get so angry about other people having sex. Why can't you just mind your own business?!

Well thats their problem then for being a sheep and a people pleaser, yeah alot is down to peer pressure but at the end of the day no-one is saying if you haven't had sex by 16 you're not cool, there are no set limitations for the age of 'losing it', you appear to have a very negative opinion on sex, what business is it of yours anyway on when people lose it and how many people they have been with its upto them comprendez?