Have you ever cried after a guy/girl rejected you?

What's important to me in a 'casual' relation is to keep things honest. I'd never give a guy the impression that I have feelings for him when I don't. And I expect the same from them. All it takes, is to say "so this is just sex, right?", don't be cuddly and all that if it's only to give her ideas. Be straight.

I am at the moment looking for my next love So difficult to find, and I don't mind a fling in the meantime, but i definitely am out there looking for someone to get serious with. Will hopefully make me forget about this guy. If I meet someone else and have to end the thing we have permanently, maybe I will see how he actually feels about me.

Sex is intimate, and when you are that close to somebody again and again, you would end up developing some feelings for them whether you want it or not. That's why it doesn't matter if you are honest to the other person and the other around. The most important is:"are you being honest to yourself"? Now that you feel some jealousy about the guy mentioned, thinking about him touching other girls the way he does to you, proves what I'm saying. You can cheat everybody about how you feel except yourself .

And you should also keep in mind that the loving guy you are looking for, may not be happy to hear about your conduct. That is also one thing you should consider!

I had my heart broken in the most extreme way possible. After traveling 5000 miles to see her (to go on a holiday I'd paid for us both), she admitted she was with another man, one twice my age - rich. I cried so much in that hotel room. I lost my baby in the worst way possible.

She went on holiday with him instead, 2 days later.

Geez man, that is a horrible way to be treated. Women can be heartless bitches sometimes. There must've been reasons for her wanting to break up with you, though, i.e. she wasn't satisfied in the relationship etc, but even so, that was a horrible thing for her to do. She could've broken up with you beforehand, so you didn't have to waste all that money on the holiday and travelling to see her.