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Why do guys always think they're so great in bed, even when they're not?

And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.

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Reply 1
Because a girl will often not tell him if he isn't.

Thus, if she has an orgasm, or fakes it , or doesnt but just seems to enjoy it. He will think is good.

If women went around telling every guy exactly they how felt honestly, men would be different.
Original post by Kaitlyn89

Original post by Kaitlyn89
And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.


Apparently arrogance is an attractive trait in men.
Reply 3
Because I am.
Because every time a woman makes a gender stereotype, a man becomes a sex god.
Reply 5
Original post by Tommyjw

Original post by Tommyjw
Because a girl will often not tell him if he isn't.

Thus, if she has an orgasm, or fakes it , or doesnt but just seems to enjoy it. He will think is good.

If women went around telling every guy exactly they how felt honestly, men would be different.


In all honesty, I would tell a guy if he was "great" in bed, but I haven't experienced a guy who is that great. So I keep my mouth shut and don't say a word, I'm not massaging anyone's ego with lies and BS!
Why do girls think that moaning about guys make them seem independent? Do girls just watch loose women and imitate what they see? The thing that annoys me, is that girls moan about guys, but in reality, are desperate for their approval, they aren't all that independent. They read a bit about Emmeline Pankhurst, they think they are a modern feminist lol. What is wrong with girls these days? Why moan all the time? Why not take what guys say with a pinch of salt, instead of treating it as gospel.
Why do most girls think they're nice and tight when they're as loose as the spare change on my dining table?
Reply 8
Original post by Narcissist

Original post by Narcissist
Why do girls think that moaning about guys make them seem independent? Do girls just watch loose women and imitate what they see? The thing that annoys me, is that girls moan about guys, but in reality, are desperate for their approval, they aren't all that independent. They read a bit about Emmeline Pankhurst, they think they are a modern feminist lol. What is wrong with girls these days? Why moan all the time? Why not take what guys say with a pinch of salt, instead of treating it as gospel.


Why would we take what a guy says with a "pinch of salt" when 99.9% of guys lie to us all the time.
Original post by Kaitlyn89
Why would we take what a guy says with a "pinch of salt" when 99.9% of guys lie to us all the time.


Because you knew what the phrase "a pinch of salt" meant?
You said it, girlfriend!

eta: the above was a joke, chill guys!

But seriously, not all guys are like this
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Why do most girls and women have such inflated views of themselves and always regard their male "equivalents" as far inferior?
I don't think I'm great in bed.

Why do girls always make generalisations?
Reply 13
The thing I loved about this is the thread starter said

Original post by Kaitlyn89
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great.


Right so you're arguement is that "men" (therefore implying all men) say they are good in bed but in fact they are bad in reality. To know that a guy is bad in bed, you would've had to sleep with him. So you have therefore slept with every man?! I'm not surprised everyone seems rubbish in bed if you're that experienced at sex sweetheart.
Original post by Kaitlyn89
And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.


Firstly - it takes two to tango.

Secondly - how about telling them what's good and what's not, instead of just moaning. It's in your benefit, after all.
Reply 15
Original post by baffled_mathman
Why do most girls and women have such inflated views of themselves and always regard their male "equivalents" as far inferior?


This. Most women believe that they're superior to men even though their reasons and arguments are unsubstantiated.
Original post by Kaitlyn89
Why would we take what a guy says with a "pinch of salt" when 99.9% of guys lie to us all the time.


Why don't you stop moaning and bitching to the internet and tell the guy you're having sex with how he can improve?
I think a large part of this is that a lot of men are incredibly selfish when it comes to sex.
Reply 18
Original post by Aisha~~
Firstly - it takes two to tango.

Secondly - how about telling them what's good and what's not, instead of just moaning. It's in your benefit, after all.


This. It's funny how women have the freaking audacity to complain about men being "bad" in bed, when most women let guys do all the work in bed. It must be so easy to be a woman. You can be completely lazy and still blame the guy if the sex is bad :top:

Being "good" in bed is EXTREMELY EASY for women. Blowjobs are probably the easiest thing to do, and how hard is it to spread your legs and rotate your hips every now and then?

It's much more difficult for men. They have to stay hard and keep shagging for ages, choose the positions, make her cum several times, and lick pussy which is not exactly easy if you compare it to giving blowjobs.

And like you said: many women can't even open their god damn mouth to tell a guy what they like and what they want in bed.
Original post by Baled
This. It's funny how women have the freaking audacity to complain about men being "bad" in bed, when most women let guys do all the work in bed. It must be so easy to be a woman. You can be completely lazy and still blame the guy if the sex is bad :top:

Being "good" in bed is EXTREMELY EASY for women. Blowjobs are probably the easiest thing to do, and how hard is it to spread your legs and rotate your hips every now and then?

It's much more difficult for men. They have to stay hard and keep shagging for ages, choose the positions, make her cum several times, and lick pussy which is not exactly easy if you compare it to giving blowjobs.

And like you said: many women can't even open their god damn mouth to tell a guy what they like and what they want in bed.


When i have rep I'm giving you some green, everything is spot on in your post.

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