I like to treat my men...

Urgh I hate it when women say they should be treated, it's a man's job to hold open doors/chairs, buy them flowers and chocolates and don't do anything in return.

I pre-ordered Skyrim for my bf - not particularly romantic I know, but it was really appreciated.

I think it's important that both parties make the occasional gesture to show their respect and appreciation for each other and the relationship. If you're not getting it back, I think perhaps you should tone it down a little so that you aren't taken advantage of. But I think it's really sweet and commendable that you make the effort.


One of my housemates expects gifts from her partner and never gets him anything. She has a charm bracelet and demanded more charms for her birthday when he was broke!

Today I was having a debate with a friend, She was saying it's weird for a girl to treat a man the way I do;

Whenever I have been in a relationship I like to do little things for the man I am dating. I wake up early and sneak out to the shop to cook special breakfasts for them, set up surprise evenings doing their favorite things, take them out for a walk at night to look at the stars away from the town's lights, make them gifts occasionally, send little messages every so often to try and brighten up their day - not ALL the time- that'd be weird, but regularly... however I have been told by my female friends that its not our "duty" as women to take that role.... surely it works both ways?

Personally, I have never had anyone treat me in the same way back, either they just accept it and say very little, or begin to take it for granted- but this is just what I do...

What are your opinions on this sort of thing? Is it ok for me to do this? Or would guys find it odd?

What makes you think I'm jealous? I don't need someone else doing things for me.

This is the same logic that idiots on youtube comments sections use when you criticise a famous musician: "OMG ur just jealous cus he gets girls and load of money!"

So if you weren't doing it simply to get likes, why exactly did you do it? Did you just want to throw out there for no particular reason, or did you really think an interesting an varied conversation would come from this?

P.S I didn't neg rep you btw

I promise, I wont ever change even if it means I die alone with hundreds of cats (who will be treated like princes as replacements for the person who never came into my life )

trust me you won't die with cats.

I hope not, but I'd still like one or two in my life time :P

Lol cats are cool but dogs are better imho unless we're talking bigger cats cos they look awesome.

OP, keep doing what you are doing and the world will be a better place.

well, I like both I'm intending to have both at some point in my life, just for the experience, however in my line of work I dont think it'd be fair on a dog, being alone for long periods of time whilst Im working long hours cats would cope better.

As for Big cats.... well if I manage to get into Wildlife/ zoo work I might just have a few of those to play around with too

But samoyeds are so cute! I wanna play with big cats :[

True Very fluffy and sweet!

Yeah I had one! Don't worry about your friends/others, it's nice some people still do that. I make random notes and leave them somewhere where they will find them one day randomly ;p

haha that's one of my tricks too glad im not the only nutty one out there leaving notes

Today I was having a debate with a friend, She was saying it's weird for a girl to treat a man the way I do;

Whenever I have been in a relationship I like to do little things for the man I am dating. I wake up early and sneak out to the shop to cook special breakfasts for them, set up surprise evenings doing their favorite things, take them out for a walk at night to look at the stars away from the town's lights, make them gifts occasionally, send little messages every so often to try and brighten up their day - not ALL the time- that'd be weird, but regularly... however I have been told by my female friends that its not our "duty" as women to take that role.... surely it works both ways?

Personally, I have never had anyone treat me in the same way back, either they just accept it and say very little, or begin to take it for granted- but this is just what I do...

What are your opinions on this sort of thing? Is it ok for me to do this? Or would guys find it odd?