Boyfriend hassling me for sex 24/7

That depends on the situation.

ye and in this situation the BF and GF want different things.......... so they need to talk about it and figure out a solution to keep both of them happy. Thats how it usually goes lol.

I did agree with that point in previous posts. The OP has to allocate time to speak with her BF..but she's anxious that he always ask for sex and presently she cannot..when she goes to speak to bf and if dhe is attempted to have sex then...

This can be resolved easily, it's not like you only want it once a week and he wants it five times a day. He wants it 1-2 times a day and you want it once every 2-3 days. So once a day would seem to be the compromise here. You will have to talk to him frankly about it. If tiredness from the kid is really an issue, try to ensure you've divided up the family workload (including your job(s)) as equitably as possible.

Also if your vagina is getting sore that's an indication that you're not getting wet enough, which is another problem to discuss. I'd have thought a properly lubricated vagina could handle sex once a day without soreness. You might benefit from extra lube if it's a physiological thing, or more attentive foreplay if it's a psychological thing. Also, wet or not, if you don't really want sex and are just thinking of England, you will tend to clench your vagina and that's going to cause him to push harder, you get sore, you then expect soreness after sex and so clench, thus a vicious cycle of soreness.

I think the main thing with problems in the bedroom is to get it all out there in full in one go, implement fixes and then try not to have to mention it again. Because fretting about whether you're doing the right thing by your partner is a recipe for unsatisfying sex in my experience.

You'd be wrong in some cases, I LOVE sex and I have a very high sex drive and I'm always very well lubricated down there and sometimes will even use extra lube but even with that if I have sex more than once every other day it gets very sore and painful, I've been to the gynaecologist there is nothing physically wrong down there other than they fact I am just slightly tighter than average and there is nothing psychologically wrong as I am almost always raring to go and in the mood for sex.

If her boyfriend can't get over the fact she is in PAIN then he is an absolute knob to be honest.

The thing is it's 4 years into the relationship it's not like we have been going out for 5 minutes we first got together when there was a lot of sex it only started becoming less frequent when I got pregnant and had the baby, (understandable) the thing with my vagina I have scar tissue on my perineum so it's gotten tighter as scar tissue isnt as flexible so unfortunately I can't just "man up", he never offers to get me off first if you know what i mean like he used to kiss me etc now it's all wanna shag? I do initiate sex like I jumped him on saturday night and he started hassling me in the morning, when I was really tired while the baby was crying to get up, I think he gets annoyed that the baby always comes first to be honest.

then she would have been raped lmao. Doubt she'd still be with him if he was a rapist.

Been there before with my ex girlfriend of a year and a half. We'd only see each other about once every 2 weeks on average, and we'd probably only have sex ONCE. There was about 6 months near the beginning of our relationship where it just started hurting her constantly whenever we tried, so the sex was even less frequent.

I'd be lying if I said our sexual incompatibility wasn't a big part of why we split up in the end.