I know exactly what you mean, OP. I'm happy for the man to be the main breadwinner in my future family.
If you're in a relationship where you've both graduated from University, and you're both going into high-flying careers, you could get moved all over the country. So you could end up down south, and your husband up north, miles apart. How is that going to work? Also, if you want to raise children it's near impossible if you both have demanding jobs: someone has to cut down their hours. Given that it's the woman who goes through pregnancy and childbirth, they're the partner that has to take maternity leave and usually has to sacrifice their job for their kids. Usually when this happens, the woman returns to work a few years later in a lower paid job. I'm not encouraging women to scrounge off their husbands and never work, I totally disagree with that. My mother doesn't work and is entirely dependent on my father so she becomes a 'scapegoat' and it's horrible. However, at the same time I admire career-driven women. If they want a high-flying career then good on them - it's a world where everyone has freedom of choice. And being in a world where we have freedom of choice, we, as women, should not be afraid to admit if we don't want high flying careers - this kind of feminist criticism is wrong.