I've been close friends with this guy for 10 years and for the most part it's been a great friendship. He's been there for me through so many things in my life and vice versa. But in more recent times I feel we've grown apart:
- the last time I met was the first time we had seen each other in a year (we lived apart for a while). When we finally met & I asked what he fancied doing, his response was "I don't give a sh*t".
- after 1 1/2 hours of spending time together he said he had to get back to studying. Fair enough but if I haven't seen a close friend in 1 year we dedicate the better part of an afternoon or evening together at least.
- he bad mouths his girlfriend to me whenever I see him, yet stays with her. He's told me she's racist towards other cultures & jokingly makes excuses for this. Furthermore, he has never introduced me to her despite me being a "close" friend & I feel left out of his life.
- I sometimes don't hear from him for 6 months & he recently blew me off when we were arranging to meet up. He apologised and said it won't happen again, but I'm sick and tired of his behaviour. He has admitted feeling depressed for the last 2 years. He says he knows there are changes he needs to make but has done nothing to make them so far.
Thoughts?