When the whole world is on Tinder, where do you find a serious partner?

Basically what it says in the title. I'm ready to settle down now, but all the dating sites for 'serious' relationships seem to be dead because everyone is now on Tinder. Looking for a serious partner on Tinder is like looking for water in the desert. It's so hard finding a guy who wants more than a hook up. I've tried OkCupid etc but it seems dead now like I said!

Where is the app for people who want serious relationships?!

This isn't a joke or anything and I'm genuinely saying this.

I'm looking for that.
You can see my pics and everything. Message me and who knows, maybe we'll go on a date.

Thanks


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Tinder isn't just for hookups. Make your intentions clear, and you can find someone who wants a long term relationship even on Tinder.

But it's even more difficult than usual sifting through Tinder trying to find someone who wants a commitment. I think the probability goes down a lot

Basically what it says in the title. I'm ready to settle down now, but all the dating sites for 'serious' relationships seem to be dead because everyone is now on Tinder. Looking for a serious partner on Tinder is like looking for water in the desert. It's so hard finding a guy who wants more than a hook up. I've tried OkCupid etc but it seems dead now like I said!

Where is the app for people who want serious relationships?!

Basically what it says in the title. I'm ready to settle down now, but all the dating sites for 'serious' relationships seem to be dead because everyone is now on Tinder. Looking for a serious partner on Tinder is like looking for water in the desert. It's so hard finding a guy who wants more than a hook up. I've tried OkCupid etc but it seems dead now like I said!

Where is the app for people who want serious relationships?!

Thanks, sounds like a really good read!

So the general consensus is I just keep looking and hoping? I have been looking for years - I'm worried by the time I find someone my eggs will be dried up and I want kids I'm in my late 20s already.

Don't want to go on the date with me then?


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Well what are you looking for in a man? Assuming you've had previous partners , what was wrong with them?

I have had several partners. The first one lives in another country now, so does the second one. The guy after that was really critical of the way I dressed and me in general. We were also both under a lot of stress so we broke up. After that, the guy I dated briefly tried to force me to have sex with him after a few dates, I wanted to wait to get to know him better and he wouldn't compromise at all so I ended it. After that I met someone amazing who I fell in love with totally but he dumped me after a little while because he wasn't ready for something serious. It was the only relationship I think could truly have gone somewhere and I was super happy with him. Since then I've found it really hard to meet anyone. My last boyfriend I dated for a little while and he smoked weed every day at least 4 or 5 times and was permanently high. I broke up with him. Since then I've been single for nearly a year.

I feel like you're taking the piss...