Would you ever get back with an ex who cheated?

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When the 'children' are 18 years old and unconditionally love that lying cheat, it's different.

I'd question how many 18 year olds have unconditional love for their cheating mother, if I found out she did that to my dad she'd be gone from my life and i'm not even close to him

Reply 21

M14B

Original post by callum_20011

depending on the size of their breasts

I never thought about this

Reply 22

999tigger

Depends how much time has passed. Once you cheat things are never the same, so you have to decide if you can build soemthing different and that its something you are able to let go. I would never say never, but its a hard thing to move past imo circs are everything.

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MountKimbie

Original post by whorace

I'd question how many 18 year olds have unconditional love for their cheating mother, if I found out she did that to my dad she'd be gone from my life and i'm not even close to him

Or father, and more than you'd realize.

Reply 24

It's****ingWOODY

Relationship ruining as far as I'd be concerned, no point in continuing it.

Reply 25

EdwardBarfield9

No. Monopoly is a sacred game of trust. If someone I'm with cheated then I'm done with them.

Reply 26

WhimsicalSloth

Trust and loyalty is so important within a relationship, and can take a lot of time and care to build up. So the idea of someone exploiting that level of trust is, for me at least, quite sickening. Of course I could never say for sure of what I'd do because it depends upon so many factors, but for the most part, I'd struggle to remain friends with, let alone become romantically attached with a cheating ex.

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user382

Original post by MountKimbie

As a young person, no, never. But when you have significant emotional/financial investments in your partner such as a house, kids, 25 years marriage it may be different then.

Agree.

It's not easy to simply extricate yourself from a life you have lived for several decades or more.

No.

Nah blud

No, I don't think so. Unless it was the kind of thing where you got together at like 18/19, they cheated once, then years later you met again, I don't necessarily believe in the whole 'once a cheater always a cheater' but like people have said, trust is an important part of a relationship that might not be there any more

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user382

Original post by queen-bee

I never could

Have you been cheated on?

Reply 32

user382

Original post by WoodyMKC

Relationship ruining as far as I'd be concerned, no point in continuing it.

Who could cheat on those biceps. :teeth:

Reply 33

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by stefano865

Who could cheat on those biceps. :teeth:

I do cheat-curls to finish them off quite regularly.

Reply 34

user382

Original post by WoodyMKC

I do cheat-curls to finish them off quite regularly.

So have you been cheated on out of interest?

Reply 35

hellodave5

Probably depends on what is considered cheating, and how long have been with them. One off isn't so bad, as everyone can make mistakes; whereas something planned is far worse and definitely relationship breaking.

Reply 36

MrsSheldonCooper

No mainly because I could never ever see them in the same way again.

Reply 37

Nadile

Nope. If they cheat then they are nothing other than a waste of time. Don't think I'd even want to be friends with someone who cheats.

Reply 38

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by stefano865

So have you been cheated on out of interest?

Nah. Though I've been left because she wanted to get back with her ex, then she came to me a week later telling me she wanted to get back with me and she'd "made a massive mistake" but I wasn't having it. Even begged my mum to convince me to change my mind :rofl: