Boyfriend said he wants to make his ex girlfriend jealous?

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not really sure what to say as you havent given much details but it sounds like he still thinks about her

Ditch him.

Life is too short.

He shouldn't be thinking about the emotions of his ex.

Basically he tries to make her jealous through social media. He talks a lot of trash about her and he hates her. He wants to make her jealous, I don't know what to do. In turn, this makes me clingy. Does he want his ex girlfriend back and does he love her? I'm so confused at why he's doing this when he claims to hate her and moved on.

We've been together 11 months.

He sounds liek an idiot. You could eb the ex one day.

I agree, I think he's trying to make her jealous to get a reaction out of her.

Why be clingy, when you are getting an idea what you are clinging to?

he's obviously ambivalent or unaware what you might think of things. Your happiness with his gf of 11 months is where it should be at and not messing wuth his ex to make her jealous. Eventually you will realise you can do better.

I mean my boyfriend is trying to get a reaction out of his ex girlfriend.

I agree.

I mean my boyfriend is trying to get a reaction out of his ex girlfriend.

I agree.

Thats what I thought you meant.

Not sure why you would be more clingy though, unless it makes you feel insecure?

I dont think you can confront him directly about it. he's not going to agree.
I suppose you cna ask him why and that its really not needed, but he will probably ignore you. Maybe he will do soemthing similar and then you cna make your mind up.

@999tigger

He's still got feels for her.

Hmm, after a year? 😕

I hope he was aware that you were present and that you are his current GF for 11 months, not fantasising ways on how to get back at his ex GF for 11 months. If so, that a really unhealthy obsession and he may need to seek some help...

How long was he with her & who dumped who?

A year isn't that long imo.

He broke up with her. They were together for 3 years.