Now... Let's say you broke up on good terms. Mostly factors external to the actual relationship between you.
You choose not to speak after doing so to make it easier to get over one another.
A year later your ex messages you basically asking if you wanna spend a day with him in a city halfway between you both, get updated on each other's lives and then go back to a hotel and **** all night and all morning.
Would you actually be open to considering that? Does it actually sound good? Or is it just totally not somewhere you'd go.
P.S perhaps this description of events is unfairly being called 'booty call' in my title.
But the principle is the same - you meet for a night of sex mostly. Then you don't meet again for ages. Although I guess the meeting for sex is a nice way to facilitate getting to know one another. And that lets you recount memories before ravaging one another in bed.
Erm, perhaps this is a dangerous path to tread...