Will keep as short as I can.
My gf lives about an hour and a half from me. She's at uni and I work. We don't text much as we're both busy but we've still made it work.
On thurs eve about 7.30pm I watsapped her and she replied the next day. We often send about 5 messages each a day so it's not unusual if I didn't hear back until maybe 11pm. But since I didn't hear back at all that eve I assumed she'd fallen asleep or gone out (she barely replies when out). Not a problem but did set some alarm bells as if she'd gone to bed she'd usually look at her phone just before she sleeps.
I then made my "last seen" on watsapp public so I could see hers. She'd turned hers off. She never turns hers off so this was also a little weird but still nothing to make me panic much. I'm quite chill and don't worry over petty things like that. However I'm not naive. It did seem a bit odd but nothing for me to lose sleep over.
I then went to hers at the weekend. I was making convo with her housemate just asking how her week was, what she got up to, making general chit chat/friendly small talk. She said "I went out on Thurs... I mean Tuesday". The fact she was about to say Thursday (the night my gf went out) and then changed to Tuesday was a further alarm. I still wasn't completely worried but it did start to get me thinking. All these things added together seemed a bit odd. One by itself was ok but 3 strange things like this. Also after her housemate said this, there was an awk feel in the room. Her housemate and my gf almost wanted to change the convo. Well it felt like that anyway. I wasn't sure if I was getting the wrong end of the stick. But after all of that I felt I needed to question her.
An hour later we went to bed. When 1 to 1 I tried to innocently ask her (in my head it was innocent - I don't know if it actually came across as more of an accusation). She couldn't believe I asked her and took offence and said nothing happened she was telling the truth. She was annoyed I would even think that as she never would. I do believe her but It's more me not being naive. Imo there's nothing wrong questioning something. It's better said than lingering in much head not knowing if she has something to admit. She's pissed i even questioned her though.
What do u think?