My boyfriends friend (lets call her catty) has been a huge strain on our relationship. She constantly crosses boundaries and wouldnt understand why shes not allowed to do so.
She **** on me during our first argument. She slept in his bed while alone in the house. She called me abusive and told him to break up with me. She would go into his room, under the covers, with the door closed. They went on a pseudo date on her birthday. And once we have another argument, she calls me abusive, controlling, disrespectful, and implies that he should break up with me.
I yell at her for this and demand an apology because these things happen every time he sees her, she'll hang off his arm and act like his girlfriend.
Im told she wont apologize until i apologize. I refuse because ive been dealing with a lot of distrust and pain for over a year. She doesn't explain why she wont apologize, she just says she wont.
She purposely disrespects me, yall.
Im starting to think she likes him because shes acting like an ex girlfriend would.. I cant think of any other reason she would refuse to apologize for being such a strain on our relationship. or why she would keep on telling him im abusive and should be broken up with.
what do you guys think? do you think she has feelings for him or is it something else?