As the title says, my girlfriend doesn't want to go down on me. I'm sure many guys experienced this before with a girl who just doesn't like to do it. Since we are together she never did it even tho multiple times i said i would really like if she did that for me in direct or subtle ways, the answer always being that she doesn't like doing it. She says she went down on her last boyfriend like more than 10 times and she only enjoyed it once. I really dont want to force her into doing it, but this is my first relationship and i want to experience and try new stuff which i think there's nothing wrong with that. I'm scared of bringing the bj subject up again as it is going to annoy her. If i insist enough she might do it just to please me, but i also want her to enjoy the experience. Bj's are probably my number 1 turn on and the fact that for my girlfriend its the number 1 turn off, makes it a problem. How do i go on about this, what do i do or say, i dont even know. I went down on her god knows how many times, sometimes the experience was enjoyable sometimes not so much because of smell taste etc but i did it because i know she really likes it and turns her on, can't she do the same for me? At least once in a while.. She also doesn't want to try positions like doggy style which i would really like to try. I just dont know how to bring this conversation up without her getting upset and think im no different from other guys. But im a guy, i want to experiment, try new stuff there's nothing wrong with that..