Okay so I'm a 17 year old female, and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half now. Our relationship is really good and strong, apart from this one thing.
Someone who used to be my best friend has been psychologically bullying me for about eight /nine months now. I've done my best to restart our friendship on several occasions, but nothing has come of it, which has greatly hurt me.
Back in September or October I voiced my concerns to my girlfriend and talked about how upset I am to have lost my best friend in such a way, and she comforted me and said I had every right to be feeling what I'm feeling ect.
However I have recently noticed that she's been getting closer to this person who's bullying me, and thus is crushing me emotionally and I'm so exhausted with it. I have said to her that it does hurt me that she would be close to someone who's hurt me so much and she says she understands but her actions do not match up with her words at all. Don't get me wrong, she's an absolutely lovely girl, when he isn't around; it's like she's putting him first and as soon as he comes to sit with us at sixth form with all our other friends, she immediately talks to him and abandons our conversation. She's invited him to her birthday party, knowing full well I wouldn't attend with him there
I just really don't know what to do, I'm in a very awkward situation as we are all part of one friend group in sixth form, and because I'm so quiet there's not really much chance of being able to make new friends.
It's really dragging me down when I know I need to be focusing on A Levels.
I mostly needed to get this off my chest, but any advice would be gratefully received.