I'm almost 30, he's in his 40's.... not big deal....
I work at a contact lenses distributor's company, the guy is an optometrist (shop owner), so he's a client of our company and I'm an agent working with him. We meet once or twice a month, he is very nice guy and I really like talking to him. We sort of helped each other psychologically, friendly support. I sort of opened up to him saying I'm poly and not in a relationship anymore (I was kind of broken than), earlier he said he's getting old, grey hair, loss of vision, getting fatter etc... mid age things, I sort of supported him with his problems, he sort of supported me with mine. Now he says he want to meet, keep saying all kind of compliments to me... At first it seems nice... but a few days ago he actually said it stright. He wants to meet off work, even offered a date.... I gently said that just meeting for a cup of coffee is fine, he started writing to the point stuff and even said dirrectly he wants to meet for sex.
I don't know how to react.... I don't want to have sex with a married guy... I mean I don't want to be any reason for ruining his family if it comes to this.... and honestly I don't know if I would go for it even if he wasn't married... (seems a bit too pushy),eventough he's usually a nice guy. On the other hand something is clearly happening with him and I may be able to help (just talking).
I'm lost in this awkward situation...