After cheating what would you do?

OP

Original post by MalcolmX

go back to your cave

That’s a stupid response. I genuinely want to know. My boyfriend kept the number of the girl he cheated on me with.

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OP

Original post by Anonymous

Tbh it’s all in their hands, you can’t expect to have a say in the future of a relationship (if you have one) if you’ve actively gone out to cheat on her/him

I don’t think I’ve posted this correctly, people don’t seem to understand it. I’m asking what would you do with the number if you wanted to make it work with your partner, would you delete it.

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username5027880

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It goes without saying, you would delete anything that has anything to do with that person, and completely distance yourself from him.

Reply 5

Theloniouss

I would simply not cheat

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Foxehh

Original post by Anonymous

That’s a stupid response. I genuinely want to know. My boyfriend kept the number of the girl he cheated on me with.

Why would you ever take back the boy that cheated on you? :lolwut:

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Hi everyone. After cheating and deciding you wanted to make it work with your partner, what do you do with the number of the person you cheated with? Do you delete it? If not, why not?
Thanks everyone

Delete any evidence, try to make my bf feel special and avoid contact with the other guy.

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UnwantedKid

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I would hope to never be in the position. That being said, if you intended to at least try to make the relationship work, you'd get rid of all contact with the person you cheated with...

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cloudy.skies

hey!

i would get him to delete it. i know it’s not nice to make him choose, but if he loved you then he wouldn’t need her number.

i understand it if they’re friends, but there needs to be set boundaries.

I hope you’re okay! ❤️

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OP

Original post by pepsimaxcherry

hey!

i would get him to delete it. i know it’s not nice to make him choose, but if he loved you then he wouldn’t need her number.

i understand it if they’re friends, but there needs to be set boundaries.

I hope you’re okay! ❤️

Thanks 💛

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xoxAngel_Kxox

If you respect your partner at all, and genuinely regret what you did, you should certainly cut all contact with the person you cheated on him with. How will he ever trust you again if you don't? It'll be hard enough anyway.

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OP

Original post by gigaberry

I would hope to never be in the position. That being said, if you intended to at least try to make the relationship work, you'd get rid of all contact with the person you cheated with...

Exactly you’d delete the number

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username4986690

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Delete, say nothing further about it to anyone ever.

Reply 14

Fermion.

I wouldn't cheat in the first place.

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OP

Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox

If you respect your partner at all, and genuinely regret what you did, you should certainly cut all contact with the person you cheated on him with. How will he ever trust you again if you don't? It'll be hard enough anyway.

And cutting all contact includes deleting right? Sorry I just want to be sure. Also keeping the number to me means it’s not really over

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username5027880

Original post by Fermion.

I wouldn't cheat in the first place.

Well said, babes in total agreement with you there. Xx

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OP

Original post by Fermion.

I wouldn't cheat in the first place.

Hypothetically speaking then

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xoxAngel_Kxox

Original post by Anonymous

And cutting all contact includes deleting right? Sorry I just want to be sure. Also keeping the number to me means it’s not really over

Yes, definitely deleting.

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FRS500