Fed up of comments about body- woman

I gained about a stone over lockdown last year and finally started losing it a few months ago- I’m now back to my old weight and weigh a few pounds less. (I was nearly 10 stone, I’m now 8.3 stone)

My relatives and mum told me last lockdown “you’ve gained too much weight” now they’re telling me “you look too skinny and gaunt in the face”…why does everyone feel they need to tell ME about MY body- if I say anything I’m being a gobby feminist.

Would they comment on a boy/ mans body so much? I’m sorry to moan but I’m fed up with being told about my weight when im comfortable and healthy. Any other women experienced this?

Thanks

yes i have received comments about my weight from friends, family, romantic partners and bullies for as long as i can remember, from at least 5 years old, so i get what you're saying. it's like that Britney Spears song lyric, 'I'm Mrs. she's too big now she's too thin (You want a piece of me)'. like why is that socially acceptable to comment on and you feel comfortable doing that i have no idea

(ps i was never huge and even constantly received remarks standing 5'7" and 130lbs which is perfectly normal.)

yeah, i agree. don't know of this problem resonating with guys; seems to be a female issue. may i ask tho did you lose the weight in a healthy way or did you do something drastic?