My boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in a week?

How about giving him a ring? If it rings then he's alright because he's obviously been charging his phone. At least then you'd have a slight understanding of his well being.
And send a short message apologising for your aggravated text, tell him you hope he's well, tell him you love him if that's what you guys were used to saying.
After that, just leave it until you get a response from him. The longer you don't bother ringing him or texting him after your final text, it'll make him speak to you because he'll be wondering why you're not constantly contacting him. And it would also potentially trigger fear within him that you're moving on

I've called him twice and it has rang fine, that's the worrying thing.
I think I'm going to quickly go to his now as he lives a few streets away to see if he's in. I can't take not knowing any longer. I think after what I've been through, and how he felt about it too, that he does at least owe me a duty to tell me that he no longer wants to be together, or wants space etc.

Do you not think it's a little full on to turn up on his doorstep at midnight?

Thanks for the sympathy.

We've been together for four months. None of us have facebook and he rarely uses twitter.

I'm afraid that he'll never surface and I'll never know what happened. But yes, I feel so bad for game playing. I'm embarrassed at how immature I probably came across.

He doesn't go to bed until 4am usually, so not really.

We all do things we later regret, and you've just been through a very difficult time. Just apologise to him when you get the opportunity, and let him know that you would like to work things out.

If he doesn't live that far away, maybe you can go see him tomorrow? At least you know what's what, then.

Okay, be sure to stay calm and listen to his side of the story

And let us know how it goes! Good luck!

How about giving him a ring? If it rings then he's alright because he's obviously been charging his phone. At least then you'd have a slight understanding of his well being.
And send a short message apologising for your aggravated text, tell him you hope he's well, tell him you love him if that's what you guys were used to saying.
After that, just leave it until you get a response from him. The longer you don't bother ringing him or texting him after your final text, it'll make him speak to you because he'll be wondering why you're not constantly contacting him. And it would also potentially trigger fear within him that you're moving on

OP your boyfriend sounds like someone I know, does your name start with M and end with A?

No haha. Sorry to disappoint.

Just had a talk with him, he has to take his friend home (who had a sarcastic, pricky reaction when he heard it was me :/), so said he's coming back soon.

But he said he was sorry. He left his phone somewhere etc. I knew what he said was coming. His last relationship ended a year ago, and it was 8 years long. He only told me this in passing when we very first met. I always knew this was a huge potential issue. But yeah, he said he's scared to get into something again because he doesn't want to end up heartbroken again so he's backed off a bit, but didn't want to hurt me. And since the break up, he takes drugs (non-hardcore) but drinks mostly every day (already knew all this) to cope with it. But he said when he's with me its the only time he feels like his normal self and that he's happy and fulfilled again.

I don't know whats happening. But I'm not happy. I feel so sad and if we continue the way we are then I'll feel worse further down the line. I think he has to make the decision soon if he wants to take the risk and properly commit to me. I took a risk and trusted him. My last relationship was very abusive, mostly physically, but I took the risk and started a new relationship. I don't believe in punishing your new partner for how your last partner treated you. I just really want to be with him. He said he wants to be with me too. But sometimes, that's not enough, I know.

I don't know whats going to happen right now.

I'd say he's no longer your boyfriend