I have a problem involving my ex's older brother

What sort of family invites their son's ex, who he purposely avoids, to spend time with them. Stick to someone your own age, he'll only get bored of you.

I didn't actually think about that...do you think he's after something else?

Certainly after something.

wait, if you can't take it, be with him. but he needs to aswell give you space. if in a bout time you both have feelings for eachother then give it a try. if you don't then thats it

I'm not saying it's not acceptable. Age gaps exist, I'm just saying at that age bracket (16-23) it just strikes me as rather pathetic.

maybe he thinks he can manipulate you cuz you're younger. but you are a smart girl from the looks of it so don't let him toy you. play his game if you want.

Hi guys, I was in a relationship about a year ago so me and the guy avoid talking to each other a lot. Anyway, as a result of our relationship, I was introduced to his parents, his 3 older brothers and his sister. I still talk to his family and they invite me out and all. So anyway me and one of his brothers, (I'll call him Henry) got talking and I didn't make anything of it. The thing is, he recently told me that he liked me and he was willing to wait for me so we can date (I'm sixteen, he's twenty three in November)...I like him back because he's cute, clever and really nice but I don't know what I'd do with my ex if he found out about me and his brother. Our friends and his siblings know but my ex doesn't. So what do I do?

^^^^This

A 16 and 23 year old are really not going to be on the same level as far as maturity, what you each are looking for, and life goals. The age gap itself isn't horrible, but its much more noticeable at younger ages.

A 23 and 30 year old wouldn't be too much of a difference. And a 43 and 50 year old would be pretty much no difference.

I think for a 16 year old look for only up to a 2-3 year gap. Once you get to university and start gaining more life experiences the gaps will seem smaller. Hope that helped.

Stay awaaaaaaaay. Honestly, just don't. I don't like the sound of this

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I've known him for a long time and he'd never do such a thing...I'm going to ask him what he's playing at

I don't know either of you so I can't really say much. But what I will say is that just because you think you know someone, doesn't mean you do. Not saying this to be mean. Just more of a warning. I had a guy friend I had known for several years. He was almost like a brother. I never would have guessed that one night he and his friends would get me drunk and assault me. Luckily, it stopped before it got too far but I haven't seen or spoken to him since. I was in complete shock. Sometimes people will surprise you in the wrong way. Not saying this guy will, but do be careful.

I think you're right maturity wise...and yeah it seems weird at my age...what about when I get to eighteen or something?

Use your best judgement. I stayed within 3 years of age for every guy I have dated. Even now at 26 I would probably only date up to 30-32 but that is my own personal preference.

We just ****ed up his chances of scoring lol.

The more I come to think of it, the more weirder it seems. Dw there's no way in hell I'll let him do something that I don't want...If he does, my foot will be going into somewhere where it hurts