I'm a virgin and a very experienced girl wants to sleep with me

And I've made out I'm sexually experienced when I'm not. I've only kissed three girls, I've never had a girlfriend. She lost her V years ago, had multiple relationships, she wants a **** buddy.

How likely am I to be able to bull**** my way through this? You know when you're sexting a girl who's asking you what you like and what you do...'I'm a virgin' doesn't really sound too hot. I have a concept of what to do, am I going to seem really bad in bed?

I'm 25 and I lost my virginity to a really experienced girl last year. My advice is be honest, it's not difficult, just read her body and listen to what she says and you'll pick it up in no time. You'll know when she likes what you're doing and you'll know when she doesn't. Let her give you advice! Be open, it's no crime to be inexperienced, just be straight with her and I'm sure she'll reward you for it.

I've always been surprised how bad in bed and generally ignorant of sexuality most 'experienced' people are. I think a lot of it is natural intuition. I remember getting with a guy when I was a fresher at uni when I wasn't very experienced at all and he told me after he was the best person he'd ever been with which was surprising given he was in the College rugby team and quite attractive. In hindsight I'd say he was pretty poor in the scheme of themes which shows practice doesn't always make perfect.

My advice would be to build it up slowly. Don't sleep with her immediately; stick to the first few bases for a bit. That way you'll build up a bit of experience and hopefully be less nervous. Also practice putting on/removing condoms; they can be fiddly to begin with and it's the kind of thing that I imagine would make some guys irrationally freak out if they messed putting it on on their first time.

I'm roughly your age. I'm very open about sexuality, but I'm not going to tell her I've never done it in case she opts out. I'll tell her I haven't in a long time and leave it there.

Only the other day we were talking about coffee. Ron Burgundy would spit his out at the level of escalation I've dealt with via text this evening. Don't people genuinely have to have sex a few times before they're in tune with each other?

you can bull**** all the way. the girls, at least polite ones, dont tell you in your face that you are inadequate. they do that to their long term bfs and husbands.

what i have learned is if a girl likes me, she does anything for me. she says i was the best (yeah, right???), she laughs at my stupid jokes (i wasnt making a joke), touching, etc.

Only the other day we were talking about coffee. Ron Burgundy would spit his out at the level of escalation I've dealt with via text this evening. Don't people genuinely have to have sex a few times before they're in tune with each other?

Okay that's your decision, like other people have said, you've seen porn, you know the essential logistics, if things get complicated lay back put her on top and watch. The last thing you want to do is over think it, whatever you think in your head right now, it will be different, just accept that and go with it. Start slow with her and work your way up to sex, you'll figure it out on the climb.

You see, to me though, I'd rather they did tell me it wasn't working, I want both of us to enjoy it. I'm always open and honest with the girls I see, because sex isn't just about body parts it's about clicking with the person, the more you can read and understand the other person the more you know what they want in bed and how to give it to them.

Having some kind of connection with the person is all that matters, after that the sex comes naturally.

Aye. No, I found that about kissing, the first time it was horrendous but after a short period it's like "hey, I'm built to do this". I'm hoping that and a large amount of alcohol will get me through it.

I've been looking to lose my V to one night stands, at least this is strategic and not for one night. Unless I'm that bad.

Aye. No, I found that about kissing, the first time it was horrendous but after a short period it's like "hey, I'm built to do this". I'm hoping that and a large amount of alcohol will get me through it.

I've been looking to lose my V to one night stands, at least this is strategic and not for one night. Unless I'm that bad.