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    Hi everyone,

    I was wondering if I could change a friendship I have with a girl into a relationship, even though she said to me that we should be friends?

    We have known each other for just other a year now and she is busy working and we have met up a few times for lunch etc.. I just feel she said to be lets just be friends because she is too busy at the moment.
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    Trust me when I say this, If she has said let's be friends then she is not romantically with you. Don't waste time trying to woo her over or anything. It is not because she is busy, If she were truly in love she would find time to go out with you and stuff.
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    To quote a saying that's been popping up a lot lately; "No means no, not 'convince me'."
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    Yeah 'friend zone' is just a complicated way of saying no i'm afraid.
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    Thank you for your honest views much appreciated.
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    Remain friends, who knows she may just fall for you, happens.
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    Yeah I am going to remain friends as we have a lot in common. I have just distanced myself from her. She did message me yesterday out of the blue which was good.
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    Just remain friends, as friendship is better than being in a relationship
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    #1 Take her to the deep sea fishing
    #3 Hysterically point at a poisonous jelly fish
    #5 Ensure she is not in mortal danger, but panicking enough that she loses her grip and falls
    #7 Proclaim, "I will save you" dive in
    #9 Give her your jacket

    "You know Ned, on a scale of 10 you are a 9 and I am the 1 you need "

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