Having sex for the first time insecure about my big bum

So i'm gonna have sex for the first time ever tonight with my bf but i am very insecure not about sex itself but because I got quite a big bum and he will see that does anyone know how to get over my insecurities?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Yeah, my mama
She told me, "Don't worry about your size"
(Shoo-wop-wop, sha-ooh-wop-wop)
She says, "Boys like a little more booty to hold at night"
(That booty, booty, uh, that booty, booty)

-Meghan Trainor

Reply 2

Anonymous #3

uh I think he'll be aware of that in advance

by telling him about it

Reply 4

Jan205728

7

Having a bum on the bigger side is nothing to be ashamed about, I’m sure your bf will appreciate it a lot more than you think :smile:

I’m not sure if this will help but everyone has insecurities and your boyfriend probably feels the same about something too

Reply 5

Corps

19

Never met a guy that didn’t like a big bum, plus he’s your boyfriend, I take it he already knows you have a big bum and finds you very attractive x

Reply 6

Oxford Mum

21

Original post by Anonymous

So i'm gonna have sex for the first time ever tonight with my bf but i am very insecure not about sex itself but because I got quite a big bum and he will see that does anyone know how to get over my insecurities?

Hasn't Kim Kardashian spent loads buying a bigger bum?

I bet your boyfriend isn't physically perfect either, but none of this matters. Just enjoy tonight, and don't worry.

PS make sure you use contraception (says me sounding like a mum)

Reply 7

fattyguen

15

hes prolly seen ur bum and he doesnt mind it so i think ur fine honestly

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by fattyguen

hes prolly seen ur bum and he doesnt mind it so i think ur fine honestly

He's never seen me naked

Original post by Oxford Mum

Hasn't Kim Kardashian spent loads buying a bigger bum?

I bet your boyfriend isn't physically perfect either, but none of this matters. Just enjoy tonight, and don't worry.

PS make sure you use contraception (says me sounding like a mum)

I'm on the pill

Reply 9

24dean73

7

Don't have to have seen you naked to notice someone's bum.

Reply 10

fattyguen

15

Original post by Anonymous

He's never seen me naked

i mean hasnt he seen u in trousers or leggings or something?

Reply 11

BlueIndigoViolet

19

lol the lengths women are prepared to go to have what you have is insane, think you're overthinking things

Reply 12

Joleee

19

he knows the size of your bum if he's seen you in real life :smile:

if this is your first time together, chances are he'll be thinking more about his body and his performance, not your bum tbh.

it's easy to hide your bum if you really wanted to. just have to chose your positions.

Reply 13

999tigger

19

Never let him get behind you for the rest of your life.

Reply 14

Miss Maddie

19

If you're insecure about your body he isn't the right person to lose your virginity to. When it's right you'll love him enough that your insecurities drift away.