Should I tell my boyfriend?

There's nothing worse than people using alcohol as an excuse for chpreaeating. "I wouldn't have done it, I was just so drunk" don't drink then?? If you can't control yourself whilst drinking then don't consume alcohol, it's that simple.

You clearly knew what you were doing as well - you kissed on multiple occasions so you can't even pretend it was just a heat of the moment, one time thing. Once is a mistake, twice is taking the piss.

I hope you tell your boyfriend so he can find someone better.

so if you’ve learnt your lesson, you should come clean. you broke his trust and that is not ok. he deserves to know what happened. yes, you may never do it again but he deserves to know. if you don’t tell him, that’s just as bad as cheating on him again.

I agree! Afraid he will think I did more. Plus it’s going to hurt him so much!

There's nothing worse than people using alcohol as an excuse for cheating. "I wouldn't have done it, I was just so drunk" don't drink then?? If you can't control yourself whilst drinking then don't consume alcohol, it's that simple.

You clearly knew what you were doing as well - you kissed on multiple occasions so you can't even pretend it was just a heat of the moment, one time thing. Once is a mistake, twice is taking the piss.

I hope you tell your boyfriend so he can find someone better.

not to make you feel even worse but telling him things such as you "cant sleep or eat" can just be turned around and make him seem like the bad guy for not forgiving you, express that you're sorry but dont try to play the victim :/

Ladies and Gents, a prime example of if you cannot handle your drinks, don't drink it's as simple as that, I'm fed up of hearing alochol or beer, or a form of intoxication, it's not a valid excuse. If you knew you're someone lightweight easily intoxicated, then why bother. Alcohol, pool party and a mix of hormones, what did you expect to happen, people just singing kumbaya with a ukelele? I'm sorry to sound harsh, for advice I suggest you just tell him, you want to forget? don't listen to your friends the whole point of making a mistake is so you learn from it not forget it! that's such an ignorant way to go about it.

Tell your boyfriend, whatever happens it's on him, and up to him and him only, least you would then have done all you could to try rectify your mistake which you oh so desperately "want to forget"

Nah, ignorance is bliss.

I oh so desperately want to tell him and receive forgiveness!!! I’m afraid he will think more happened and I’m hurting him !

It's so simple "I was confused" like don't drink, It's all fun and games until you hurt someone whilst being drunk, if you can't behave don't get yourself in that situation. What annoyed me the most isn't that it's her saying she wants to forget it, like okay you made a mistake you don't forget shi* you rectify the hell, and be the best bloody gf you can ever be and never make the mistake again.

There's nothing worse than people using alcohol as an excuse for cheating. "I wouldn't have done it, I was just so drunk" don't drink then?? If you can't control yourself whilst drinking then don't consume alcohol, it's that simple.

You clearly knew what you were doing as well - you kissed on multiple occasions so you can't even pretend it was just a heat of the moment, one time thing. Once is a mistake, twice is taking the piss.

I hope you tell your boyfriend so he can find someone better.

PRSOM


Exactly, also you don't get to choose whether someone forgives you or not - that's their decision and you have deal with the consequences of your actions.

I was a couple of kisses, me stopping him. That’s all. I even told him I had a boyfriend! I won’t ever leave my boyfriend after this summer again!!!

It's so simple "I was confused" like don't drink, It's all fun and games until you hurt someone whilst being drunk, if you can't behave don't get yourself in that situation. What annoyed me the most isn't that it's her saying she wants to forget it, like okay you made a mistake you don't forget shi* you rectify the hell, and be the best bloody gf you can ever be and never make the mistake again.

I was a couple of kisses, me stopping him. That’s all. I even told him I had a boyfriend! I won’t ever leave my boyfriend after this summer again!!!

Yes yes yes!

Don’t play victim or try to manipulate!!!

i won’t! Thank you!

you sound american lol
at the end of the day,you betrayed his trust and cheated on him so he deserves to know. i hope he finds someone better.

Yes yes yes!

Don’t play victim or try to manipulate!!!