why do people remarry/redate after their partner dies?

the kids or the dad probably didn't think it was replacement, i wouldn't want to find someone after my partners death, i still think infidelity,

how many years did he wait? and i think it is sad he woudl've stayed miserable if he didn't find anyone, but i also think it's messed up that he found someone, because i think it's replacement, so i think it's messed up either way, so i don't know what to say,

the kids stopped being miserable because their dad replaced their mum? Sounds far-fetched, their mum was still dead. I can see how the dad was happy to meet a new wife though.

2 or 3 years? I can't remember. No, it's not messed up, it's really not. And it's not replacement for either of them. I mean, think what you want, but I don't see how it's disrespectful or messed up. All I see is that my brother is happy, his wife is happy and their kids are happy. And they remember their late partners/parents. I wouldn't expect you to understand


I mean, they were sad that their mum died. Of course they were sad. And they didn't stop being sad after my brother met his current wife, none of it happened overnight.

how do you think the role of the partner getting taken by someone else isn't replacement? also i still think it's infidelity, i don't want to share my partner with someone else, and how does your partner having sex with someone else not scare you,

how do you think the role of the partner getting taken by someone else isn't replacement? also i still think it's infidelity, i don't want to share my partner with someone else, and how does your partner having sex with someone else not scare you,

i don't want to share my partner with someone else, i think them being with someone else after my death is replacement, i heard people say how their partner told them not to be with someone else after they died and the comments were just shoving words into his mouth,, saying how he would've wanted her to be happy, also you said they love their second as much as their first isn't that replacement,

But you’ll be dead? You won’t be sharing - as you’ll be dead. It wouldn’t scare me, as I’d be dead and life goes on after death

go take a crap on a dead man's grave he's dead he won't feel anything,

My aunt died 3 days after being diagnosed with cancer, she told her husband of almost 29 years to find someone and be happy. He can’t replace her. As she is irreplaceable, they were together for over 30 years, had 2 kids together, and had already gone through her having cancer previously. No matter how hard he tries, no one would be able to compare to his late wife.

no matter how unique and different you can still say which one you love more, i don't want to share my partner, and i don't want my role taken, i don't get how you don't find your partner being intimate or having sex with someone else scary,

but if he was in his 30s instead of 60s and he had beautiful young women to choose from, it wouldn't be so difficult to replace her would it.

go take a crap on a dead man's grave he's dead he won't feel anything,

He was 49. You can try to replace, but nothing will be the same as his first wife

It won't be the same, but it could be better.

There's plenty of foxes doing that as we speak, shouldn't you be there to clean it up rather than crying on here about your "cheating" future widow?

100 posts on a ridiculous thread by a loony toon who has not budged his opinion one bit whilst encountering an overwhelming ocean wave of dissention to his opinion..

He won’t feel anything, no. But it is disrespectful. However carrying on with your life isn’t disrespectful

My Nonna became a widow at 35, she died at 80 - do you think she should’ve been alone for 45 years?