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Boyfriend strange fetish

My bf has confessed to me that he has a fetish for doing things with me while I'm unconscious/sleeping.

He's never done anything without my consent so I trust him 100%.

I'm also kind of into the idea of it aswell. Just want to know your thoughts on it & if it's too far or what
If you trust him to stay within your boundaries then perhaps talk about what you're happy with/not happy with him doing to you and then see how it goes. As long as both of you are very clear about what's going to happen and you're both okay with it then go for it I suppose
Original post by Anonymous
My bf has confessed to me that he has a fetish for doing things with me while I'm unconscious/sleeping.

He's never done anything without my consent so I trust him 100%.

I'm also kind of into the idea of it aswell. Just want to know your thoughts on it & if it's too far or what


this is from porn. It's too far. You don't know what could happen when you are asleep.
Reply 3
As long as he asks for your consent and you trust him then why not?
Reply 4
Original post by Wannabevetnurse
this is from porn. It's too far. You don't know what could happen when you are asleep.

It's not, he doesn't watch anthing. I don't mind what he does but not @nal lol
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Original post by Amin7
As long as he asks for your consent and you trust him then why not?

Yeah
Original post by Anonymous
It's not, he doesn't watch anthing. I don't mind what he does but not @nal lol

Most porn is literally doing stuff when the person is asleep and getting caught.

So you don't mind if he takes pictures of your sleeping naked body and posts it online, but you would mind if he stuck it in your ass.
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Original post by Wannabevetnurse
Most porn is literally doing stuff when the person is asleep and getting caught.

So you don't mind if he takes pictures of your sleeping naked body and posts it online, but you would mind if he stuck it in your ass.

No but he doesn't masturbate or watch anything. Besides, what is a relationship without trust, I'm sure he's had plenty of opportunities to take some nudes & share them, but he hasn't.
As long as you consent, then it's not much of an issue. Just say to him what your limits are. Maybe start things off slowly, like try little things and see how you both feel.
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Original post by Anonymous
My bf has confessed to me that he has a fetish for doing things with me while I'm unconscious/sleeping.

He's never done anything without my consent so I trust him 100%.

I'm also kind of into the idea of it aswell. Just want to know your thoughts on it & if it's too far or what


He has a rape fetish then...
Original post by jlggr4
He has a rape fetish then...

rape is without consent... you’re the type to make false accusations, if you dont even know what the definition is.
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
rape is without consent... you’re the type to make false accusations, if you dont even know what the definition is.

don't dare say that. idiot

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