He wants me to meet his friends & family already

Best thing to do is tell the guy straight… but also you need to be completely clear with him on how you view the relationship in its current status.. sounds like he’s taking it as a bit more of a permanent thing than you are… which in your case isn’t a bad thing if it’s only really early days

How long have you been seeing each other? Was there a friendship prior to that?

We've been chatting for over a month but only actually seen each other for a couple of weeks. No we didn't really know each other before. Just seems like a lot too quickly.

When I was at this stage in my current relationship, my girlfriend and I were meeting each others friends - so I personally wouldn't think it is too fast. He's likely viewing this as a chance to see how you would fit into his life if you were to become his partner.

If you're not comfortable with the idea though then by all means decline the invite.

Don't get me wrong I do like the guy and hopefully see it being more permanent, I just think he's moving a bit too quickly. I don't know if it's cos he's a bit older & all his friends are settled down/getting married/having kids so maybe he feels the need to move things along quicker?

Honestly, best thing is to be perfectly clear but in a nice way from the start, but make sure to reassure him that it doesn’t take away any feelings you have for him cos he could very well see it as you not taking the relationship very serious at all.. good luck