Hi, I was recently doing a course in a smaller university which was more tight knit which is part of the reason I chose it because I’m a very shy person and it also included history which has been a subject that has always interested me but while I was there I felt so alone and depressed. I really struggled to make friends and I could not bring myself to do any of the work; even when I was doing A level history, we were doing a particularly a topic I didn’t particularly enjoy so I was slightly put off it. Also I was extremely embarrassed about presentations we had to do and speeches because I felt like I completely bombed them but I also got in my head a lot about it. It got to a point where I completely self destructed and decided to stop going in entirely and I kept telling myself I would go in but weeks turned into months. I never sought help for my mental health in college because I have always felt ashamed.
Now I am in a bigger university doing a different course and I feel completely numb.
I feel no urge to be social or even show up. I feel so misplaced and I can’t stop thinking about the past.
I really can’t come to terms with my decision and focus on the future.
There is also so much pressure from my family to go to University.
I need advice. I really feel stuck.