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How do you know a girl finds you attractive?

Like physical attraction, etc

Girls feel free to answer lol
Original post by Anonymous
Like physical attraction, etc

Girls feel free to answer lol


There's no definitive sign... but generally some of the following are good indicators:-

1) Her smiling at you lots whenever she sees you; also if she makes a point of actually talking to you when she see you (i.e. never a quick "Hi"
2) Her going out of her way to talk to you, or get your advice / opinion (esp if there are better people around)
3) Her behaving differently towards you than others without an obvious trigger (note this can also include her being moody / stroppy with you for no apparent reason).
4) Complimenting you on something you're particularly good at
5) Laughing profusely at your really bad jokes (unless it's completely un-PC, of course)
6) You coming up in conversations with her friends (hard to find out, but sometime girl-mates give it away)
7) You just happen to mention a particular thing you like about girls, (e.g. clothing, hair / make-up etc) and guess what she's sporting the next time you see her?
8) Random looks/ stares/ gazes over in your direction.
9) She stalks you on social media (and likes A LOT of your content).
10) She says "Yes" when you ask her to go for a drink or something :wink:


As I said, none of them are definitive signs, (well maybe apart from the last one lol), so it's best to look for a few indicators rather than just relying on one or two. Also, bear in mind, it's a lot harder to read a shy or reserved girl.

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