Cool. Once again - thanks for the info
So the social hierarchy would be (in descending order):
1. Western European males
2. Eastern European males
3. Carribean males
4=. Subsaharan African/South Asian males?
Also, (maybe there are insufficient numbers) but where do North Americans, Latino males and Antipodeans fit into the hierarchy, or is this uncertain? Tier 1 encompasses highly-skilled professional migrants - maybe the people you are referring to are people who were able to migrate as family members/relatives and access education to a point where a work visa was granted, or reached a level where British citizenship was awarded after 5 years law-abiding residence. Incidentally, for 'care'-related professions, these often require a degree-level qualiication so men involved in this sector may be Tier 1 migrants.
Are there really so few opportunities for interaction beetween African/Asian males and non-African/non-Asian males especially (and possibly females)? I would have thought in many football clubs, parks, gyms etc. many of these people may meet. I'm not sure that clubs are particularly popular with coloured men - often as Freshies/coloured men I guess we often prefer sporting entertainment (especially billiards and snooker, and in my own case videogaming) to socializing in clubs and bars. For many Freshies that sort of noise is only really associated with the din of traffic in a South Asian/West African metropolis and (in my case) it seems fairly difficult to communicate in a club (maybe not so much in a bar) which often means we prefer socializing in a restaurant environment. Do you think Western European males are more used to communicating in clubs and bars than coloured men?
In the case of South Asia there is often interrethnic banter (though it may appear as vilification to non-South Asians), but I think in some cases British-born subcontinentals can be very hostile towards South Asian expatriates (though I can't directly explain why). This tends to be more pronounced amongst British-born subcontinental females rather than males - though that observation is anecdotal. I'm not sure if the same occurs amongst African males and British-born West African peoples. I was also under the impression that most African/Asian males were from nations where English is an official language (and most likely a language of business and regularly used in the workplace) so I thought most would be fluent. Do you think the accent is a barrier to communcation. I am assuming the same is true in the case of African males, but amongst different South Asian ethnic groupings differences in the accented English tend to be discernable (e.g. I could probably distinguish a Malayalee accent from a Punjabi accent and from a Sylheti accent).
This is what a kurta is:
It's not ideal in winter when it is quite cold but I often wear it in summer as do a few other Asian males, and sometimes some African males wear what appears to be a similar garment. Is this considered fashionable/unfashionable in the UK? I think most of my fellow Freshies and often many coloured men are not particularly vigilant in monitoring fashion trends (certainly compared to my white male friends who are MUCH more fashion-conscious than I am - but again this is anecdotal). We tend to wear suit trousers and a shirt for most of the working day and jeans and a jumper in the evenings (or obvoiusly the appropriate sportswear if we're playing sport in the evening). Is this deemed quite banal for men in the UK? What clothing is currently fashionable for males in the UK? At work I have tended to have predominantly male colleagues who wear quite similar clothes so I personally have not faced accusations of being unfashionable so maybe it is not something that is seen as important?
Also, recently many Islamist terrorists have been from West African backgrounds and there are some from Indian backgrounds too and obviously Maoist symathizers and Naxalite terrorists from Eastern India. Does you think this further contributes to the negative reputation of coloured men amongst British women? But are you sure that coloured males are often stereotyped as terrorists (just that the overwhelming majority of people across all ethnic groups don't participate in terrorism). My aunt is South Asian and she is married to a white male (and they are from different countries) so it is fairly acceptable in Bangalore. I would imagine that it's more acceptable for a white male to go out with a coloured female than for a coloured male to go out with a white female, since doesn't the latter have connotations of theft (I'm fairly sure this has been the case since colonial times?). I've obviously heard of Big Brother but I haven't ever watched it apart from some snippets so haven't heard of this Sree guy - what is he like? By the way, Goa is the smallest state in the Indian Union (and only has a population of 1.4 million) so I'm not sure how representative it would be of 'the Indian people'.
So to summarize, African/Asian males are generally stereotyped by British women as:
*culturally ignorant,
*non-integrative/antisocial,
*of poor socio-economic status,
*unfashionable/uncool,
*terrorists/terrorist sympathizers?/violent,
*sleazy/creepy.
Sorry if this sounds ignorant but I was completely unaware of these! (apart from the terrorist thing). In Bangalore, we haven't met sufficient numbers of British women for stereotypes to have developed, though most of the stereotypes surrounding British males are usually quite positive. They tend to be seen as fairly well-educated, creative and articulate. I suppose the only negative ones would be that they are usually too fearful to drive (though this is deemed fully understandable) and sometimes have trouble handling their alcohol.
Do you think it would be worthwhile for African/Asian males to be made more aware of the stereotypes surrounding their character/demeanour upon arrival to the UK so they modulate their behaviour as a result - e.g. were no African/Asian male to initiate romantic contact with a white female, presumably the sleazy/creepy stereotype would disappear. Similarly, were African/Asian males to be encouraged to conduct comprehensive research on British customs, legal practices etc. prior to arrival, they may no longer be stereotyped as culturally ignorant/insensitive. What do you reckon?