Girls grinding on you in a club...

What does it mean when girls grind on you in a club? I've only just turned 18 and I'm fairly new to clubbing. Quite a few times random girls start dancing close to me or grinding with me, does this mean they just want to dance, they want to kiss, get laid or what? Sometimes I pull with these girls but, nothing more. Either I go away cos I don't know what to do or they say they have to go back to their mates.
Anyway, so what do girls want out of you when their grinding with you? Just dancing or more?

Reply 1

Cuddlemonster

4

They've got something on their trousers and their washing machine is buggered.

Reply 2

Yawn11

20

9/10 times they are just semi-cock teasing.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 3

loz957

9

I ignore them and walk away while looking down on them. makes me look like the bigger person with more self respect.

Reply 4

Onge

14

Your reading too much into it man.

Reply 5

Deadlifts

Original post by loz957

I ignore them and walk away while looking down on them. makes me look like the bigger person with more self respect.

I think most guys would give up their self respect if it meant sleeping with a hot woman (provided they're single)

Reply 6

Pqwt

Original post by Anonymous

What does it mean when girls grind on you in a club? I've only just turned 18 and I'm fairly new to clubbing. Quite a few times random girls start dancing close to me or grinding with me, does this mean they just want to dance, they want to kiss, get laid or what? Sometimes I pull with these girls but, nothing more. Either I go away cos I don't know what to do or they say they have to go back to their mates.
Anyway, so what do girls want out of you when their grinding with you? Just dancing or more?

In most cases it's because they want to find out how big you are, i.e. if you're big/"worthy" enough to go home with them.
Sad, but true.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 7

DiZZeeKiD

16

Original post by loz957

I ignore them and walk away while looking down on them. makes me look like the bigger person with more self respect.

Also makes you look like a massive homosexual. Winner.

Reply 8

member398873

15

How about you don't read into it so much, grind back and see where it goes?
It's not an invitation just to whack your dick out there and then though.

Reply 9

*Dreaming*

15

Original post by Yawn11

9/10 times they are just semi-cock teasing.

This.

Reply 10

anonymous 428

8

they wanna do you/want you to do them
are you very cute/good-looking/hot? :P

Reply 11

Mr. Gutsy

8

They're using you as a tampon.

Reply 12

God Himself

3

I personally hae never had this done to me...... :redface:

Reply 13

shadow99

14

They just want your body, thats all it means.

Reply 14

stargirl63

17

Mostly it's just someone to dance with. A bit of a thrill, bit of lust, that kinda thing. Usually it's just to look at their other girlfriends with the look of "oh look what I'm doing!" type thing.

Reply 15

Man

Original post by God Himself

I personally hae never had this done to me...... :redface:

Congratulations, you're probably very unattractive!

Reply 16

God Himself

3

Original post by Man

Congratulations, you're probably very unattractive!

I agree. But I have a Girlfriend of 8 month so its all good :smile:

Reply 17

Anonymous #2

Original post by Pqwt

In most cases it's because they want to find out how big you are, i.e. if you're big/"worthy" enough to go home with them.
Sad, but true.

How do you know that?

:lolwut:

Reply 18

Eveiebaby

12

Grinding up to a guy in a club means anything from "just a bit of fun" to "I want to take this person home". Different things to different people. I don't think most girls plan one night stands as men tend to actively pursue. Men tend to be more strategic when it comes to finding a woman in a club.

Certainly in my case, any one night stand just resulted from things developing over time during the course of the night with no expectations on my part. I think you are thinking way too much into it OP. Expect to just enjoy a grind for the enjoyment of a grind. If anything else ensues, then it's a bonus.