Am I being unreasonable

Im 21 , and I was planning to go on a road trip with my friends to germany .However my parents say that no way can the let me on the road with a car ,they said I could go either by tran or bus .I mean come on I'm 21 , and they still treat my like a child. I didnt ask for a single penny for the trip , and they wont pay me a single dime but wants me to go a bus or a train (which is much costlier)

Anyways , had this huge argument with my dad , and he was like after all the years I looked after you ,cant respect me ? I was like wtf?(in my head) , I mean they always been overprotective of me .

Sorry , for the rant ..:sigh;

To be honest, going by train would be much safer and would probably cost less if you try inter rail websites. I mean, you'll need a good solid car they will be able to drive long distances with 2 people and 2 peoples worth of luggage, break down emergency care, insurance, etc, in addition to you driving on unfamiliar roads with unfamiliar rules in a language that you might not completely understand. Plus, if your car gets broken into or stolen, you'll be screwed.

Thats parents for you

I always talk my mum into things, and she persuades my dad, as he is probably the hardest guy to persuade.

So try that, use the 'softer' parent

Yh , does work sometimes , but in this case my mum is on my dad's side too

Just do it, part of being a son or daughter is disobeying your parents lol

the two guys Im going with are german , you have a point so do they .But surely this is all part of growing up .I just dont understand how long they want to keep me under their wings ..I mean my dad left his house when he was 16 , found his job , married and did all the stuff he wanted to ..Why cant I

They care about you and don't want you making mistakes. They probably think 'my house, my rules' too.

What are you reasons for taking a car as opposed to flying/train-ing?

u care too much for their opinion i think.. go by ur own and sooner or later they will understand that ur grown enough to take the future in ur hands and their permission is totally not needed

As I said I wont have a house to live ,when I come back .So disobeying them might no be a good idea , unless you want to help me out

I usually go to my dad while he's sleeping and T-Bag him.

I try to do that when he's sleeping

slowly creeps in to his room ,
Me: Daaad

Him: Piss off

Me :