Sometimes the more you say you don't want to have anything to do with kids, the more they come to you. Previously since Katrina was 5 I've had an agreement with her mother that every 5 years I give her a new car and that's child maintenance and support for 5 years paid upfront, I didn't want to have anything to do with anything else as I had my work that required a lot of travelling then, decided was better that way. Had an automatic renewal of that deal 5 years ago, but now the mother doesn't want to renew that deal or give out a similar deal as she feels she had sacrificed enough and gave me a good deal for too long for the arrangement to continue. Fair enough I suppose as she herself wants to go to uni and has 4 other young kids and a marriage to look after. Now she is asking that either Katrina goes to stay with me or I could pay for a boarding school.
Katrina, she is a mirror image of my mum, though sadly she lacks the industriousness and work ethnic my mum is rather well known for. I'm quite disappointed that at 16 she never even made a CV or worked a day in her life or has any savings. When I was her age, I had long since been working for my mum and had plenty of savings on my own... even Emilie at 5 can save money. Her mother claims she does plenty around the house and often helps to look after the younger siblings so it is excusable that she never had any employment.... I just don't find this to be an acceptable excuse.
Katrina doesn't want to go to a boarding school though or so she says, she is quite interested to know who her grandparents are plus who I am. She is quite angry at me though that my parents don't know of her existence or that I hadn't made any attempts to establish anything with her. I told her she most likely will be sent to boarding school as it wasn't feasible for me to move to Britain, she thinks she might like it very much to live in Switzerland. Not sure if I like this idea all that much. My OH thinks I should just let her come live with us in Switzerland and told me I should sacrifice my study in the house and make it into a bedroom for her. She also thinks its despicable I'd consider sending her to a boarding school and started the oh typical you and only you would think of such solutions. I should have told my OH, yeah that's exactly what's going to happen when she has a kid too, am going to send that brat to a boarding school
Anyway Katrina will visit us next weekend in Switzerland.
This morning was on telephone call with home, checking to see how the kids were. LOL first thing Emilie asked me was how come I've still not given my OH money to pay out pocket money and savings. I told her I would pay it out on Sunday night when I got home, LOL she started on on how when you are late with bills the bank gives a late fee, she is rather serious in charging me a late fee LOL. Sometimes when I think back on the times when I was 5, I can still somewhat recall I wasn't exactly too different.
Matthias is teething again and has gotten on to biting anything he can get into his mouth. My OH refuses to use a crib for him when he is awake as she wants to follow the new Montessori system where they don't put them in confined spaces but instead let the baby be free to move about.
What a miserable weekend it is in Birmingham, it's been so rainy and cold here. Believe it or not I actually arrived in Britain without a rain jacket or any warm clothes. Was supposed to go for a golf game this morning but instead have been stuck in the hotel.
Hope everyone is doing fine and not affected too much with the ongoing crap weather.