Yeah so basically, I've been with my bf for over 2 years now and his mum is a complete cow about it. I'm 'not good enough' for her son, despite the fact I'm at a top 10 uni, have a nice little part time job, good group of friends and have hobbies both with and without my bf.
My rents have well paid jobs, I live in a nice area etc but I don't think I'm a snob about it. I went state school like most people, and I went to a grammar sixth form. I don't get what she can think I'm 'not good enough' about when my bf dropped out of school at 16 with about 2 GCSEs (he's done well since then tho, I think he was just a lazy sod tbh, he's pretty bright)
I really can't work out why she doesn't like me.
She didn't really raise her son, his grandmother on his dad's side did (his dad and aunties absolutely adore me, but his stepmum hates me despite the fact I've met her twice, wtf?) and she's (his mum), being nice here, a bit chavvy to say the least. She doesn't have a partner, they split up fairly recently, and I got on well with him too. I've always got on with exes parents, my exes mum still asks me round for tea sometimes, so I'd like to think I'm not that much of a bitch! but clearly she thinks I am.
Anyway, I need tactics of how to put up with it. I'd never badmouth her to my bf (although he badmouths her loads haha, its not my place to say anything) but how do I just get on with it and smile and pretend I don't care?