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Girls, what are the worst traits a man can have in YOUR opinion

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I'd tell you about my music tastes but its really obscure, kind of underground you know? Ah who am I kidding? You wouldn't know.

See I'd rather that kind of response (even if you're being sarcastic) than "oh well um, I like MTV Top 40", idk music is just something I'm interested in and I'd rather someone who I could share music with

Reply 101

RHyoudon'kno

When they're heartless... :angry:

Reply 102

Chicken.M.

Original post by Geena-

lol. tbh not even intentionally hipster but I steer clear of music in conversations since I actually do listen to a lot of uncommon stuff. But I listen to stuff from every genre and time period including mainstream stuff. Got loads of playlists on youtube from different genres.

Reply 103

Rlove95

Disrespectful
Violent
Arrogant
Shallow
In your face
Racist/Sexist
Player
Man Whorish.
Laddish.

Reply 104

georose

Guys who spend the majority of their time inside, where going out to socialise and just do things doesn't happen. I enjoy time indoors watching netflix and playing games, but not 100% of the time.

When their diet consists mainly of McDonald's and Dominoes.

When they obviously check out girls and talk about how "fit" they are with their friends and won't give girls who aren't stunning the time of day. Those with nuts calendars in their rooms are the worst :sigh:

Reply 105

Anonymous #1

theres a lot of "insecure" on these lists :/

Reply 106

TheAnusFiles

Original post by redferry

**** on the villa!!! Were going to **** on the villa tonight!!!!

That is all.

Birmingham fan?

Reply 107

redferry

Original post by TheAnusFiles

Birmingham fan?

Yeahhhhh

Reply 108

TheAnusFiles

Original post by redferry

Yeahhhhh

oh I thought it was a reference to David Cameron

Reply 109

Dani California

If they're not into music (it's important to me), if they have no interest in anything creative, or are snobs, or aren't up for trying anything new.

Reply 110

redferry

Original post by TheAnusFiles

oh I thought it was a reference to David Cameron

Well if the man could get any more odious that would definiteley add to it.

Reply 111

Alys-Cait

Original post by dorii

LOL

For me:
- Strong BO smell
- Long nails (makes me gag too)
- Unhygienic
- Insecure
- No ambitions
- In love with Star wars or something stupid
- Disrespectful

don't you think that it's disrespectful to say that what they like is stupid? What if they said that about something that you like?

Reply 112

Alys-Cait

Original post by SiMan

Some girls I talk to tell me I'm "awrr cute" or "different from other guys" "sensitive nature". What on earth is that supposed to mean? People see me as a 12 year old kid?

It means that they don't find you attractive. But that doesn't mean that someone else doesn't.

Reply 113

Doppelgänger

Original post by Sanctimonious

Arrogance and high self opinion rights there.

Several of the posters here are conceited with inflated opinions of their self-worth. Besides "self-worth" counts for little if the market determines otherwise. It's amusing how I've read the expectations or "high standards" of some of the respondents here who in all likelihood don't even satisfy their own listed requirements. Reality checks are overdue!

Reply 114

RayApparently

I don't think I have any of the traits listed by the OP. Then again... that could be the arrogance talking.

Reply 115

trustmeimlying1

Original post by Anonymous

theres a lot of "insecure" on these lists :/

dont care about that kid

date when youre ready when yeh wana

its more about what you want than what you want once you get to a good place

Reply 116

TheAnusFiles

Original post by redferry

Well if the man could get any more odious that would definiteley add to it.

Supports Villa he does

Reply 117

trustmeimlying1

Original post by Geena-

Probably laziness to the point they just sit on their bum all day watching tv, doesn't have a job or any ambition.
Someone who's left-wing with their political beliefs. If you've ever voted for Labour, then chances are we won't get on.
Hygiene is a big thing for me, if you stink or have bad breath or oily hair, I won't be attracted to you.
Music taste is also a deal breaker, if all you listen to is chart music then I can't imagine much conversation going on. I'd rather someone who's a real fan of music I don't like (metal) than someone who just listens to what ever is on MTV.
Also if you read the Guardian... just no.

haha I tick all the boxes but jaysus such specific picky info

alarm bells should be ringing lads! :biggrin:

Reply 118

nohomo

Too good looking

Too rich

Too happy

Too fun

Too clever

Reply 119

Architecture-er

Original post by Ruthless Dutchman

Because the lack of negative qualities doesn't raise your positive ones. :wink:

Fook m8, I'll nife u :mad:

Original post by Secretnerd123

Maybe you do have those traits but possibly unaware of them.

Also, every woman has different standards and what I may think is a good trait, another woman may think is a bad one.