I was with my ex-wife a combined total of 22 years, 12 of it were in a marriage. We have 4 children aged between 21 and 4 though technically there is a 5th one but due to some circumstances that child is biologically mine but legally am not the father, next month will be a year since the divorce took effect.
I consider myself very lucky because laws in Nordic countries with regard to divorce isn't near as punitive as those in UK or USA or Singapore. While I would have wished for it to have been handled better and hoped that she had shown a higher standard of conduct, I was essentially happy though angry that I had only lost 27% of assets, didn't bother challenging it either as to me something isn't really a problem if some money can solve it. I had long seen the writing on the wall that it would happen, while I had hoped that it could be delayed till our youngest was a bit older and could better cope without her mother being around, things simply didn't quite work out that way. As per typical me, I opted to solve the problem as quickly as possible and simply gave her the assets she wanted so she would just bugger off. She has yet to pay for a single kronor towards child support which she is supposed to or come to see our kids since last May, I no longer bother that she doesn't want to have anything to do with our kids, they cope just fine without her as there is their grandmother and a multitude of activities I had signed them up for that they had long since forgotten that she used to be in their life.
Would I marry again?
It is a bit difficult even if I wanted to, I don't want to marry someone that doesn't have as much assets or doesn't hold a networth that is similar to mine. I also don't particularly want to get involved with someone significantly younger than me and when it comes to finding women similar to my age group there is another issue to contend with that I don't really want to deal with and that is she may have her own children, I don't feel the need to be a dad to someone else's children. I don't want any more children either as I never really planned on having more than 2 to begin with and I don't particularly like the idea of having children with more than 1 woman. It isn't that I don't like children, however at this point in my life I prefer building up my businesses and accumulating wealth which requires me to devote quite a bit of my time.
I do have a partner now, we don't live together for now. Would I marry her? I highly doubt it, she is 31 this year, don't have children but she is in a career that to the day she retires it would be unlikely she would ever make anywhere near the same money as I do now. Thankfully she isn't into marrying for now and isn't all that interested in having children so will see what happens.