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Why is it so hard not to get feelinga for girls

I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt

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Reply 1

Masih ad-Dajjal

Because you haven't been with many women.

A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.

Reply 2

Shadez

Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal

Because you haven't been with many women.

A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.

and how does one "harden himself"?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal

Because you haven't been with many women.

A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.

Ive not been with any girl

Reply 4

Little Popcorns

God you don't make for a very good boyfriend if you're constantly falling in love both you and her wouldn't know whether you're coming or going.

It's just hormones you have to learn to be grown up about it. Yes they might all be pretty or nice but those alone don't make for good relationships/sex/whatever you're looking for. Unless you want to find yourself perpetually searching for greener grass I suggest you have a focus and accept that you can't have it all. Imagine how horribly overwhelming that's be anyway.

Just be a big boy basically.

Reply 5

IFoundWonderland

Original post by Shadez

and how does one "harden himself"?

You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:

Reply 6

Shadez

Original post by ILovePancakes

You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:

Reply 7

Chicken Bacon

Original post by ILovePancakes

You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:

This chick knows fam, wife her asap.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 8

kkboyk

Original post by Anonymous

I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt

Probably because you are yearning deeply for a relationship.

Reply 9

toonervoustotalk

Hormones raging :redface:

Happens to me. I have two crushes in my class :wink:

Reply 10

username2053059

Original post by Anonymous

I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt

Hate to question on this...but how was your upbringing?

Reply 11

TorpidPhil

Same problem *rolls eyes*

Reply 12

ZuluK

Original post by ILovePancakes

You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:

Yeh but how does one get hard? :wink:

Reply 13

IFoundWonderland

Original post by ZuluK

Yeh but how does one get hard? :wink:

Dw I will teach u

Reply 14

BRING BACK MHOC

Sometimes I feel so lucky to be asexual :lol:

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by cbreef

Hate to question on this...but how was your upbringing?

What do you want to know exactly?

Reply 16

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Anonymous

I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt

Meh, I have the opposite problem, I hate almost everyone that so much as though looks at me. So yeah... your in a better position to some extent :tongue: