How to get out of the friend zone :( or forget about about a crush

YungChicken

lol

Please help me out lol :smile:

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(edited 5 years ago)

Reply 1

Kevin De Bruyne

Original post by YungChicken

Ah, that 'as friends of course' bit is kinda meh. I understand the 'I'd rather be friends with her than risk making a move' mentality but I don't think you'd get over someone that easily without cutting off contact for a while or getting rejected by them. So if I were you next time you were hanging out, I dunno, just try to hold her hand and see what happens, and if it goes 'badly', just play it off.

Reply 2

UWS

Original post by YungChicken

For example a couple of days ago she licked my face when I was giving her a piggy back lol!

Wat.

Reply 3

Zarek

Two options 1) ask her out 2) go out drinking with her and make a pass. If rejected in either event just move on and put your energy in to finding someone who is up for it. Don't faff about. Good luck.

Reply 4

Zhango Unchained

Original post by UWS

Wat.

your avatar goes so well with your post :rofl:

Reply 5

Oscar.

Well if you do gang out as friends then sge's not wrong, also it's not like you guys are dating so she's gonna tell people you're friends, tbh it would be weird if she said you're more than friends. I think you both like each other but you're both scared to admit it

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Reply 6

IanaD

Give it time ... you'll know what your feelings are all about ... then you'll be sure what to do

Reply 7

Kevin De Bruyne

Original post by YungChicken

How can I play something like that off? What if she gets creeped out as soon as I do it :redface:

Sorry. To hold her hand and then be rejected would be difficult to play off. But say her hand was by her side while you were sitting together and you 'accidentally' touched.. should be a bit easier. 'Oops, sorry!'

Reply 8

thunder_chunky

One does not simply get out of the friendzone. It's black gates are guarded by more than just orcs.

Reply 9

jamesthehustler

forgetting techniques

focus drive and ambition elsewhere
vodka and other spirits
harder drugs
collections

Reply 10

username2295565

You're not in 'the friendzone' - she is merely not attracted to you.
Don't place the blame on her for that lmao (which is what you're doing by stating that you're in "The Friendzone")

Reply 11

Zechs

Stop thinking with your penis , she's just your friend and you are just horny find another girl.

Reply 12

Kevin De Bruyne

Original post by YungChicken

When you've been going out with that girl for 3 months now :smile:

Made it out the f***** friend zone!

https://vine.co/v/i2awem7aB9u

Congrats :h:

Reply 13

Nate19o

The ONLY thing you can do is to stop being the "always there" friend. Try see another girl, do things without her. Let her miss you.

If you have a chance with her, she might then realise the friend zone dynamic isn't going to keep you around. THEN, you can spend time together and make a move.