Why do some men seem bitter and put older women down?

Yeah if they're hot. I've seen women who looked like crap all through their twenties and only learned how to groom and use make up in their thirties and all of a sudden get more attention. That's a minority of women though, not enough to change the general rule.

Its the same with men, higher status has potential to attract women but not many older men are rich/high status/hot enough to have all this 'sexual power' these instances are in the minority too. Most are bald/overweight with low-average status. This is my point thete are general theories but in reality theres not enough older hot men for there to be a general rule.

That's because the wall for women is anywhere from 25-35, for men it is more commonly 35-50. Not that hotness really matters for a man that much anyway.

They are deluded if they think they will suddenly become attractive and have all the power when they age.
I know plenty of women who still look great in their forties, and ones in their fifties who divorced and had no problem finding a new partner.

True. Research shows that women in their early 20s are in demand with virtually all males. The tend is downhill once they hit their late 20's

Not just backed by theory (although this does stand up to scrutiny), but by stats, as above

Bitter losers, in the main. ‘Modern’ Western culture and technology don’t help of course. I was talking to some about the toxic growth of superficial expectations/skewed relations in this context just the other day, as it happens (but will spare you the lecture). Men are experiencing greater mental health problems as a direct consequence of these trends, and some women are falling victim to direct (LAD/’rape’ culture) and indirect effects (distrustful/vengeful relationship behaviours) too. Unfortunately ‘human progress’ has carried us to a point at which it is self-evidently not advancing humanity in welfare terms but, instead, making matters worse and driving discontent and a disconnect between the sexes. As a professional dating coach/relationship counsellor I see this at first hand

That’s a bloody awful exercise to do!

Unfortunately men, ultimately, are the drivers of virtually all things in life (except, arguably, nurturing/home building), so this is a pretty hollow ‘victory’ of the sexes. The reality is that unless/until males develop the tools of attraction and deep rapport building they are at a significant disadvantage in the dating game, yes, but once a male becomes proficient in these areas then the sky is the limit in a way that can never be for females (who are neither biologically programmed, nor sociologically licensed, to demonstrate gaming behaviour, or indeed psychologically enabled to generate attraction largely off the back of their general aura [security value], rather than their aesthetics [replication value])

That’s a good attitude to have

They're not deluded. When they get a bit of money and power, shallow women flock to them like flies to ****. Have you seen Thailand? Lol..the whole place is like a Justin beiber concert crowd except it has fat pot bellied men dancing with teens.

Thailand isn't the UK. I am on about proper relationships, not buying people. Pretty pathetic if the only way they can get interest/attention from women is by flashing their cash

Lol you're deluded if you think we're any better or any different. My bestfriend said to me point blank- after she graduates from oxford (law). She'll get with the richest guy she can find. All my friends say the similar stuff..they'll never get with a guy who earns less than them.. bla bla bla..they'll only put out if they buy them stuff in relationships.. bla bla bla.. They'll leave a guy if he gets fired and doesn't get a decent job.. bla bla bla..I'm sorry, but wait a couple of years and go into the real world and then you'll see how it really works. IMO about 80% have this mentality, and of the 20% only 5% are genuine, soft, kind, caring types making them unicorns in the grand scheme of things..

You obviously have *****y friends.

No luv. That's life. You wouldn't go out with someone on benefits or someone who is in their 30s stacking shelves at ASDA. Don't lie to yourself.

Pretty much. Plenty of sugar babies and slugs out there who will spread em. TBH I think its down to culture, experience and background. Given the alarming rate of divorce in this country and single parenthood/ teen parenthood it doesn't surprise me. We're broken as a nation when it comes to stuff like this. I agree though, its not acceptable for those men to treat older ladies like that..but don't forget..ladies don't treat men nicely when they're young either!

As a female I got no attention at school/college, it went to all the 'pretty popular girls'. I lacked confidence and was a tomboy into sports. For a facial attraction psychology topic at college, I was rated lowest in the class for facial attraction in an anonymous 'survey' the lecturer suggested the class did on each other. Most people were given 7's and 8's. I was given a string of 4's and two 5's, lower than the teacher lol. Made me feel like crap for years. But I don't feel bitter or anger towards men nor want revenge just because I couldn't get a relationship. Nor do I go rubbing in my observation that generally women can get sex much more easily than men, at almost any age (should they want to). I just work on myself and if someone comes along then that's great lol.

I think if you want to work out where you are going wrong in your life, you need to take time to re-read your posts. You talk about women is if they are sex objects, or nothing. If you don't change your attitude, you'll be alone forever.

I find it absolutely disgusting that your teacher made you all complete a facial attraction survey on each other. Surely as a psychology teacher that individual should have known what a harmful psychological effect that would have had, so unethical.
That teacher's pathetic demonstration led you to feel **** about yourself for years. I am completely astounding that they were able to get away with that. I find it so frustrating, you should have complained.

That's so true Shardie . If it makes you feel better, those with high standards end up marrying or LTR a complete **** who ruins their life/ abuses them and then cheats or walks out after they've had kids. Karma I suppose. But the same applies for guys though, girls can cheat and leave them etc. I'd rather the boring, plain, nice and kind soft type than the bad girl, interesting, wild-fire, sassy, arrogant type. Given that soft, kind and genuine girls who aren't gold diggers/ shallow are as rare as hens teeth unless you go abroad..I might be looking for a while.

No luv. That's life. You wouldn't go out with someone on benefits or someone who is in their 30s stacking shelves at ASDA. Don't lie to yourself.