Girls what would you do (clubbing scenario)

You are in a club and a guy starts to talk to you and is being friendly, then he tells you that he has come to the club alone, what would you do? what would be the first thing you would think? Would it change your opinion of him?

Reply 1

Rhaenys10

20

what opinion? :smile:

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Reply 2

ANM775

20

most think it's creepy/odd

when i used to go clubbing sometimes i got separated from my friends and sometimes when talking to girls they would look at me suspiciously and ask "so who are you here with?" ..and i can tell that they think it is weird to come alone and are screening me with that question.

Reply 3

MrsSheldonCooper

20

Would find it fairly creepy even if he was nice.

Reply 4

username2791212

10

I very rarely form complete opinions of complete strangers that I meet anywhere. I personally don't go clubbing, but it doesn't really hold any kind of significance to me whether someone goes alone or in a group. The one and only thought I might have is that someone must be confident to go to a club on their own, but that moreso stems from me being frightened to walk around on my own in my town, especially at night where there will be drinking and likely drugs.

Reply 5

Pinkberry_y

19

Something similar has happened to me before, luckily my friend came over to me so I used her as an excuse to remove myself from the conversation with a guy.
Personally I find it odd/creepy, but then again 99% of the guys clubbing are there to get laid so maybe he's that desperate to, that he's come alone

Reply 6

drowzee

15

I'd just walk away tbh

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by drowzee

I'd just walk away tbh

Why would you walk away?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Pinkberry_y

Something similar has happened to me before, luckily my friend came over to me so I used her as an excuse to remove myself from the conversation with a guy.
Personally I find it odd/creepy, but then again 99% of the guys clubbing are there to get laid so maybe he's that desperate to, that he's come alone

Is that because you would feel like you couldn't trust him?

Reply 9

Pinkberry_y

19

Original post by Anonymous

Is that because you would feel like you couldn't trust him?

Definitely. He's just after sex

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Pinkberry_y

Definitely. He's just after sex

But how is it any different from being approached by a guy who is with a couple of people?

Reply 11

Pinkberry_y

19

Original post by Anonymous

But how is it any different from being approached by a guy who is with a couple of people?

With a couple of people shows me he has friends, is social. I still wouldn't go off and sleep with him but it would normalise him a bit more than a someone who's come clubbing on their own who's going around chatting up intoxicated girls.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Pinkberry_y

With a couple of people shows me he has friends, is social. I still wouldn't go off and sleep with him but it would normalise him a bit more than a someone who's come clubbing on their own who's going around chatting up intoxicated girls.

Fair enough, Good point.

Reply 13

123moon

8

Depends if i saw him first and if he caught my eye but no if i was alone i would find it creepy that he would be so nice to me and tbh i'd just walk away and tell him to "f*** off".

Reply 14

DanB1991

17

Haha tbh weirdly enough, every time I've gone *sod it no-one wants to go out, I'll just wing it an see who's out* I end up pulling :lol:

Albeit I never go out these days intending to pull.

I think it depends what vibe you give the person. If it seems like a genuine conversation then they won't be creeped out, if you give them the impression you're just there to pull then they will.

Reply 15

CallousCleric

2

Original post by DanB1991

Haha tbh weirdly enough, every time I've gone *sod it no-one wants to go out, I'll just wing it an see who's out* I end up pulling :lol:

Albeit I never go out these days intending to pull.

I think it depends what vibe you give the person. If it seems like a genuine conversation then they won't be creeped out, if you give them the impression you're just there to pull then they will.

Oh sorry hard man :P

Reply 16

DanB1991

17

Original post by CallousCleric

Oh sorry hard man :P

A) What you apologising for?

and

B) How am I a suggesting I'm a hard man from that post? :lol:

I'm stick thin ffs!

Reply 17

rosilo

3

Id probably chat with him, see what he's like, because everyone deserves a chance in my opinion

Reply 18

natalie427

12

Original post by Anonymous

You are in a club and a guy starts to talk to you and is being friendly, then he tells you that he has come to the club alone, what would you do? what would be the first thing you would think? Would it change your opinion of him?

I would find it very strange, due to the fact the reason I go to clubs is to socialise with my friends, dance with them, drink with them. Therefore, I don't understand the reason someone would go alone, and as I'm not bothered about talking to this person because he is a complete stranger, I would just leave him. I wouldn't try to understand as I am in a club trying to enjoy my time with my friends! No loss.