Firstly there are more attractive girls out there than attractive guys
https://cdn.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/styles/image-article_inline_full/public/blogs/38/2011/01/51559-41637.jpg?itok=PA74y-b0https://cdn.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/styles/image-article_inline_full/public/blogs/38/2011/01/51559-41638.jpg?itok=vWE4YA8Xput bluntly, there are not enough attractive men out there for every attractive or very attractive women to find a man who matches her looks. Some women will HAVE to date average men. There are simply not enough stock of good looking men around compared with good looking women. There are double the amount of very attractive women than very attractive men for example.
and most guys who are average do not routinely get good looking girls. If he's lucky he might get one ....but after that relationship is done his next gf usually is within about a point of him, but I wouldn't say most average guys are walking around with girls who are over 1 point better looking than themselves.
You are better off playing to your strengths tbh if you want an attractive woman. Stop going for white english caucasian women [which generally place a very high importance on looks] and start going for east asian women ....as east asian women like white men even more than their own men.
As a white man you will find is noticeably easier to get an attractive east asian gf than an attractive english white woman.
Where I live pretty much everyone is white British/Irish.
Generally speaking white english women place the most importance on looks/physical appearance in a partner. Eastern European white women place a bit less on looks. Since you are average you will do generally do better with EE woman than white english women so you might want to consider EE women too.
As I said there is not that many, Lithuanians, Polish women etc are very attractive though.
did you actually go to Cambridge like your insta says?
That sort of thing would impress an east asian woman or EE woman more than a white english woman.
No it was ironic
Also ...start going for younger women. How old are you, like 23ish?
start going for 18 year olds. You will have an easier time attracting an attractive 18 year old than an attractive 23 year old.
I am 20 and I try to go younger but even so.
Honestly, in nightclubs and places.. I find the attractive girls that will show interest typically tend to be a lot younger than me. I'm talking around the 10 year mark in terms of age gap. Apparently I look very young for my age so this might have something to do with it, but it's definitely easier to attract a younger girl than a girl of the same age. I've seen this too for friends also, who do look their age, they tend to do better with younger girls.....
pictures matter dramatically.
I used to get around a 1 in 100 reply rate on pof, from the last experiment I did with new pictures i'm on around 1 in 7.....
It's the thumbnail as well. If the picture looks meh as a thumbnail girls aren't even going to click on it and thus won't even view your profile or see the full pic. I had a pic up where the thumbnail looked kinda meh but the full pic wasn't bad ....and I was ignored by all but 1 girl I sent an unsolicited message to, but via the meetme feature there were girls clicking they wanted to meet me. why? because the girls who saw me on the meetme feature were seeing the full pic.
I got about 1 in every 5 on POF, but I hate online dating it is a waste of time and very fake.
even had very good looking girl not only click she wanted to meet me but directly message me too. She seemed very enthusiastic ...and tbh I got a bit carried away and exchanged a fair few messages with her [I wasn't meant to do that as this was an experiment] eventually though I admitted I lived nowhere near her.................